Just a dream right?

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Old 04-14-2014, 07:18 AM
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Just a dream right?

Hi All,
Had a dream about my exAbf. Just when I thought I was out... Holding on though & using helpful strategies learned from SR angels, thank you all. The short of the dream was he looked like another man, broken, disheveled & half his size in height & weight. Hope you all have a good day. Bernadette777
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Old 04-14-2014, 07:26 AM
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ahhhhh.....those dreams, those pesky little reminders of what was, what wasn't, what could have been....

had many of them. they still creep in at times.

while I lie in bed awaiting sleep, I learned to try to direct my dreams.....being the good codie that I am.....directing has always been my own self-proclaimed strongest trait.....
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Old 04-14-2014, 07:34 AM
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I think dreams can reveal a lot to us.

I believe the dreamer is the best interpreter or her own dreams. However, my first thought about yours is that maybe you're beginning to see your ex differently.
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Old 04-14-2014, 07:35 AM
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Sounds prophetic to me.

I find my dreams to be symbolic of reality.

When I was with XAH I had a dream that I was being chased by giant rats. No matter where I went, they would pop up from the ground or the walls. I knew they were rats, but they somehow were my XAH too.

It was a powerful dream in which I saw my ex as the conniving, dirty, mean, stalker that he was. It was really helpful in my healing.
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he looked like another man, broken, disheveled & half his size in height & weight.
I agree that that dream seems to say you're beginning to see him in a new light. He's not that BIG PERSON TAKING UP SPACE that he was when you were together, when everything circled around him.
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Hi,

Thank you for your responses, I appreciate your time & thoughts. It doesn't mean I should reach out right?
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I know, I know. If he needed my help, he'd ask for it. I once asked if he wanted any help, he said no. & that he didn't want to be a burden to me. There you go. Have a good day all.
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Old 04-14-2014, 11:41 AM
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hmmm, the King is Dead.

You are free.

Go enjoy YOUR life.
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Hi Hammer,

Thank you for your words. I just sent you a pm, just wanted to say thank you- I greatly appreciate it. When you have a chance- you'll see my pm. Thank you again, Bernadette777
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To embraced2000, kudzujean, lill, :

Thank you all for your kind words. I appreciate you taking time out to answer me. Thanks again. Bernadette777
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Thank you biminiblu for your kind words, I appreciate your time & thoughts. Bernadette777
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