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Old 02-14-2014, 11:26 AM
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UGH stupid guilt

Got a phone call a few minutes ago. My little dog died. I had to leave him with axb, as there was no way to bring him with us when we left. Xander was only 5 and I guess he just keeled over and died.
Axb was gone all week at his brother's, though he supposedly stopped in to feed the animals every day. I feel guilty because I'm sure the animals were/are being neglected, but I had humans to keep safe.
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Old 02-14-2014, 11:40 AM
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I am so sorry to hear about your poor dog. My heart is with you! Hugs...great big hugs to you.
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Oh no im so sorry. sending hugs
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LadyScribbler, I am so sorry.
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So sorry to hear that (((hugs)))
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If he's neglecting the animals to the point of them possibly being starved to death, please call animal control and/or the local police and have them checked on. The poor animals are innocent victims as well. Starvation is a horrible, slow, extremely painful way to go. I know that saving humans comes first, but animals can't physically walk out, call for help or even attempt to let someone know they're suffering. Please, please help them.

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O sweetie...I am so sorry. My heart just breaks for you. Tight Hugs.
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Old 02-14-2014, 01:40 PM
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Lady,

What terrible news, I'm so sorry.

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Old 02-14-2014, 01:48 PM
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Oh, lady - what a shame.

Please try not to feel guilty. It won't help anything. Maybe you can have a small ceremony for him - plant something in your garden, or send a small donation to the local animal shelter in his honor?

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ladyscribbler, I am so sorry--your poor houndie friend...
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I'm so sorry, ladyscribbler
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Old 02-14-2014, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by FlippedRHalo View Post
If he's neglecting the animals to the point of them possibly being starved to death, please call animal control and/or the local police and have them checked on. The poor animals are innocent victims as well. Starvation is a horrible, slow, extremely painful way to go. I know that saving humans comes first, but animals can't physically walk out, call for help or even attempt to let someone know they're suffering. Please, please help them.

I don't think he starved. I think he pined away. My ex was feeding them and doing the bare minimum, but he never showed any affection, especially for the dog.
Animal control in Erie has 1 officer who basically only deals with emergencies, and I am in another state and have no way of knowing what the day to day situation is in that house. I had an arrangement with his mother who was supposed to take the animals out if things got too bad.
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I'm so sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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Sorry for your loss. Sending much love and healing your way.
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That poor baby! I'm so sorry for your loss and that you couldn't take him. I could never imagine starving my babies from attention. They would never go for it in the first place but gosh... I'd be just crushed if anything happened to them!
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