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hi im new to this site but really need some help.
Im 16 and my father was on drugs for years all kind of them and ended up going to rehab for 3 months in canada leaving me and my brother with my mother who has a depression,He came back after three months and was good for half of year started being a real father and for about the last 4 months he stays out till 4 in the morning doesn't tell us who he is with or what he is doing and i get so scared that he might be dead and the same thing is happening tonight i wait for him to come home just to make sure that he is okay.i really don't know what to do and i just want some help
Im 16 and my father was on drugs for years all kind of them and ended up going to rehab for 3 months in canada leaving me and my brother with my mother who has a depression,He came back after three months and was good for half of year started being a real father and for about the last 4 months he stays out till 4 in the morning doesn't tell us who he is with or what he is doing and i get so scared that he might be dead and the same thing is happening tonight i wait for him to come home just to make sure that he is okay.i really don't know what to do and i just want some help
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I'm so sorry for your situation and how afraid you are.
If your mother isn't able to help, is there another adult in your life who you can speak to for help and support? Is there a teacher at school, a neighbor, someone who can help you and your family?
Please try to take care of yourself.
If your mother isn't able to help, is there another adult in your life who you can speak to for help and support? Is there a teacher at school, a neighbor, someone who can help you and your family?
Please try to take care of yourself.
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
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Hi and welcome light123.
I'm sorry for your situation too - that's tough for anyone, much less a 16yo.
Do you have any adults to talk to about this, if not your mum? any teachers, school guidance counsellors, family Dr?
D
I'm sorry for your situation too - that's tough for anyone, much less a 16yo.
Do you have any adults to talk to about this, if not your mum? any teachers, school guidance counsellors, family Dr?
D
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: New York
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Welcome light! I'm sorry to hear you're going through this with your Dad. Have you let him know how upset this is making you? How you worry?
Please feel free to vent your feelings here, it helps to get it all out.
Sending you big hugs.
Please feel free to vent your feelings here, it helps to get it all out.
Sending you big hugs.
this stuff takes time and a lot of it. :hugs:
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