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11-25-2013, 01:58 AM

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Tabbj

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Morning all

Good Morning all ..
Once again up at 3:30 am fighting with husband because he wants to keep fixing me ... how can you explain to someone stop trying to fix things you can not fix ...
love what posted of the magnet I want one ...

I feel I am new to recovery everyday ... taking baby steps all the time ...
all I want to do is cry all the time and keep my head on straight at the same time

Everyone have a good day will check in after work or during work break if have enough time ... Thanks to everyone who posted on " What is Normal " I am as normal as I am ever going to be ...

Everyone has been great on here and what I have read ...

11-25-2013, 02:02 AM

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Nonsensical

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Originally Posted by Tabbj

Good Morning all ..
how can you explain to someone stop trying to fix things you can not fix ...

If you crack the code on this, let me know.

I have had to come to accept that I cannot fix my wife's need to try to fix me.

11-25-2013, 02:23 AM

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Tabbj

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I never thought of it that way ...
is he trying to fix me to fix him self !!!!!!!

11-25-2013, 04:14 AM

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Mikie9

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Good morning and I hope you have a good day! No person can fix another, all they can do is be supportive while they fix themselves. Just my thoughts on it tho.