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Old 09-22-2013, 05:50 AM
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Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum and glad to be here. I'm on day 7 of my new life and haven't felt this good in a long time. I've been an alcoholic for many years and have gotten worse over the last couple. I was I guess what you would call a functioning alcoholic. I never missed work because of it, paid all my bills and met all my personal obligations. Because of that I was in denial about my drinking. Not any more. All this time I was slowly destroying my relationship with my fiancé and I couldn't even see it. Things came to a head last weekend which was my wake up call. I have chosen to be the person I was meant to be and stop wasting my life. Glad to be here!
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Old 09-22-2013, 05:54 AM
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Welcome to SR.

Concratulation with the first week.
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Old 09-22-2013, 05:54 AM
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Great post, Yankee! Welcome. I am glad you are here with us
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Old 09-22-2013, 05:57 AM
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Welcome aborad Yankee. We are glad that you found us... This is a great support forum and you will get lots of support here.. Keep reading and posting.

Well done for 7 days.. Like you, lot of us were same. Functioning alcoholics. But we did reach our bottom somewhere..

It is really nice to know that you have acknowleged the problem and already taken steps to live a normal and peaceful life. We are with you .. Keep it up.
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:16 AM
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Welcome! This place has been a true lifeline to me over the years.
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Good for you Yankee. Way to go on the 7 days!
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:20 AM
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Great to have you here yankee x.
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:22 AM
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Hi Yankee, welcome. Great job on 7 days. It gets better. Keep going. Soberlife gets better and better. Stick around. It's good here.
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:23 AM
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:36 AM
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7 days is a great accomplishment, congrats! I'm on my way to that goal right now, but I will focus on today. Today, I choose not to drink
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Old 09-22-2013, 06:37 AM
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Welcome Yankee, congrats on 7 days. This place has helped me a lot with my recovery. Glad you have joined us.
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Old 09-22-2013, 08:26 AM
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Congrats on 7 days, Yankee! I was a functioning alcoholic for years. Had a great a job, luxury apartment in the city, loving family and an awesome girlfriend.

But like clockwork, I was functioning no more. I still have my job (barely) and a place to live. But my family no longer trusts me. My girlfriend broke up with me when I was in the ICU for withdrawals literally 5 minutes after the doctors took out the breathing tube that as was keeping me alive.

Be grateful you decided to get help before the functional aspect wore off. Because it always does.
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Old 09-22-2013, 08:35 AM
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From one Yankee to another, Congrats on 7 days
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Old 09-22-2013, 10:30 AM
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welcome!

I think I'm a Yankee Doodle too...as in functional alcoholic. As I've grown sober though, people are starting to tell me I was still a bit of a mess.

Glad you're here! I've learned a lot. You'll find great support here.
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Old 09-22-2013, 12:00 PM
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Hello Yankee
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Old 09-22-2013, 12:07 PM
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Pleased to meet you Yankee! You found a great place. Congrats on your hard-earned 7 days! I love your positive attitude.
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Old 09-22-2013, 01:40 PM
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