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Old 03-29-2013, 04:53 PM
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Thumbs up My first day, I'm scared

I've spent all day reflecting over the last 20 years. I've always known it but finally admit that I am an alcoholic. I have two beautiful boys and feel that they are starting to catch on. I am quitting for me but as a result want me to be a better me and mom. I'm not going the AA route cause its been shoved down mg throat my whole life, my father literally spent his life there,it didn't help my brother so I love this sight. I realize there are so many people with this issue, I read all the post and I feel like I've written them myself. So here goes. I know I will need support so stay tuned....
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Old 03-29-2013, 04:57 PM
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I think you should be so proud, Yellowtail. It takes a lot to come to this conclusion - and I didn't do it for decades.

I think being here will make a huge difference to you - it's good not to feel alone with this. I had no one to discuss it with - no one understood what I went through. I'm glad you found us - you will find hope and encouragement here.
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Old 03-29-2013, 04:57 PM
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Yellowtail, . Lots of support here.
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:00 PM
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Welcome Yellowtail

You;re not alone here - you'll find a lot of support

There are other recovery methods besides AA - I encourage you to at least take a look:

There's many different approaches and methods of recovery around - here's some links to some of the main players (including but not limited to AA):

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...formation.html

I recommend you visit the Secular Connections forum if you think you may benefit from a non 12 step approach.

glad you've found us - I drank for 20 years too - my life started again when I quit.
I think we all deserve that second chance

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Old 03-29-2013, 05:04 PM
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Welcome, Yellowtail.

Here is a link to recovery programs:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...formation.html

There is also Rational Recovery/AVRT which you can google and find more information in our secular forum. Here is the link to the secular forum:

Secular Connections - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information

Glad you found us.

ETA: I see Dee beat me to it!
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:10 PM
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Welcome to SR yellowtail.
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:12 PM
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Welcome ! Glad you are here.

Please join a non-AA recovery program to ensure success.
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:18 PM
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to the site! We're glad you joined us.
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:19 PM
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Welcome aboard... Took me 20 years too, I find this is a very positive place and its always open...
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Old 03-29-2013, 05:42 PM
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Wow, as I read all the wonderful posts welcoming me to this site, I find myself in tears so touched by all the words of encouragement! Thank you so much!!
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Old 03-29-2013, 06:56 PM
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