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Old 11-19-2012, 01:48 PM
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11 YEARS in recovery and sober and still every so often let go og God and run the ole show myself.....when will i learn

I think its nice to be here dont know yet.

Looking for another avenue as well as meetings!!!
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Old 11-19-2012, 01:52 PM
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Old habits die hard. Glad to see you struggle with this at 11 years makes me feel better when I struggle with it at 3. We were ready to have our charactor defects removed but the question is, "When?"
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Old 11-19-2012, 02:18 PM
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Hi and Welcome,

I've been sober a bit longer than you, and I still have moments when fear grips me. At those times, my mind starts to work at warp speed to control everyone and everything in my environment. It's not pretty, but I know what it is, and I know to stop, breathe and take a big step back.
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Old 11-19-2012, 03:29 PM
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Welcome to SR Pleaser x
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Old 11-19-2012, 03:41 PM
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Welcome to SR pleaser.Glad you are here.
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Old 11-19-2012, 03:46 PM
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glad you are here!

go to You Tube and look for (the) 4 Seasons of Recovery by Don C, it's an eye opener!
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Old 11-19-2012, 05:38 PM
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Welcome Pleaser

I dunno about anyone else, but I'm much happier not running the Universe these days

good to have you here

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Old 11-19-2012, 05:50 PM
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i dont think i will ever have the absense of fear in my life. it is a natural emotion. what is important is what i do with it when it crops up. if it is fear over a decision or action i have to do, i ask for courage. if it is my own thinking gettin whacked, i ask God to remove it.
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Old 11-19-2012, 05:52 PM
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Welcome Pleaser! I am sure you have lots of wisdom to share with those of us that are still new in our sobriety!
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