Milly39

Seperated AH rang last night to talk to the boys.
He said he would take them to school in the morning.
He has been off work for the last 4 weeks on " sick leave " - has numbness in legs and can hardly walk etc etc.
So he asked me did I know what day it was tomorrow ...and I said yeah...nothing very important.
So he says it was important to him -WTF !!!!!!

To me it is the same as every other day. I get up and get the kids organised for school, go to work, collect the kids, get dinner organised etc etc etc.
Meanwhile...he does whatever suits him...day in, day out.

Anniversary my a$$.

suki44883

If he has numbness in his legs, is it a good idea to be driving the kids around?

Milly39

Suki - he's ok for short journeys....we live 2 miles from school and to be honest it's all he does lately.
His time with the boys has been EXTREMELY limited -his choice.

dandylion

Milly, isn't it just ASTOUNDING how oblivious the A is to the feelings and needs of others.

It is as if their gigantic sense of entitlement wipes out all "awareness" of others.


dandylion