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newbie checking in
Hello all
New to the site and decided after some time I need some advice and help 28 years of age and scared I won't make it to my nex birthday think I have adrink problem well I know I do wake up say no drinking tonigh but have bad days a work and a beer helps me relax I don't ge drunk but drink frequent 4 or 5 a night nothing heavy but feel its going to ge worse - weekends I do drink more do not go out like I once used to getting drunk drinking all night I jus do no not know where to start at a lose really sorry for spelling using a blackberry seems a bit delayed - I welcome all comments and advise have thought about help classes but none local to me I feel as know I am alcoholic and need help before its to late but where do I start - hate my job used to love it boss is an ass always stressed and I do no know what else to do would like to be in touch with llike minded people - steve - london uk
New to the site and decided after some time I need some advice and help 28 years of age and scared I won't make it to my nex birthday think I have adrink problem well I know I do wake up say no drinking tonigh but have bad days a work and a beer helps me relax I don't ge drunk but drink frequent 4 or 5 a night nothing heavy but feel its going to ge worse - weekends I do drink more do not go out like I once used to getting drunk drinking all night I jus do no not know where to start at a lose really sorry for spelling using a blackberry seems a bit delayed - I welcome all comments and advise have thought about help classes but none local to me I feel as know I am alcoholic and need help before its to late but where do I start - hate my job used to love it boss is an ass always stressed and I do no know what else to do would like to be in touch with llike minded people - steve - london uk
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,445
Welcome Steve 
SR was great for me - I knew I had to make major changes in my life but wasn't sure how to start. The support and advice I found here really helped me.
The first thing we all need to do is stop drinking. It's good to bring a Dr in on that if you can.
The second thing is support. You'll find a ton here - but if you feel you need more there's all manner of recovery groups around - there are some UK links at the bottom of this post here:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...formation.html
I recommend you visit the Secular Connections forum if you think you may benefit from a non 12 step approach.
There's quite a few members here from the UK too so I'm sure they'll chime in with local knowledge
good to have you join us
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SR was great for me - I knew I had to make major changes in my life but wasn't sure how to start. The support and advice I found here really helped me.
The first thing we all need to do is stop drinking. It's good to bring a Dr in on that if you can.
The second thing is support. You'll find a ton here - but if you feel you need more there's all manner of recovery groups around - there are some UK links at the bottom of this post here:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...formation.html
I recommend you visit the Secular Connections forum if you think you may benefit from a non 12 step approach.
There's quite a few members here from the UK too so I'm sure they'll chime in with local knowledge
good to have you join us
D
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 5,678
Welcome to SR Steve
I'm from the UK and have had support from AA and a local drug and alcohol agency. Your doctor should be able to tell you what is available in your area. Or phone Drinkline 0800 917 8282. I hope you find the support you need.
I'm 31 and have been sober for 5 months. I found it really hard to just stop drinking (I've had thousands of day ones!) but I found the support here really helped, plus a recovery method called AVRT (google the crash course if you're interested).
Glad you're here x
I'm from the UK and have had support from AA and a local drug and alcohol agency. Your doctor should be able to tell you what is available in your area. Or phone Drinkline 0800 917 8282. I hope you find the support you need.
I'm 31 and have been sober for 5 months. I found it really hard to just stop drinking (I've had thousands of day ones!) but I found the support here really helped, plus a recovery method called AVRT (google the crash course if you're interested).
Glad you're here x
Powerless over Alcohol
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Trudging the Road to Happy Destiny!
Posts: 4,018
Welcome glad you found this site.
It is a progressive disease, so its good to hear you thinking about it now. And dont have to waste all the years as I did. I personally use AA and SR , wouldnt be here without my program.
It is a progressive disease, so its good to hear you thinking about it now. And dont have to waste all the years as I did. I personally use AA and SR , wouldnt be here without my program.
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Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Dancing in the Light
Posts: 61,514
Welcome, Steve,
I'm glad you're here and seeking support. I think talking to your dr is always a good idea before you stop drinking and definitely get rid of the alcohol in your house. You can do this!
I'm glad you're here and seeking support. I think talking to your dr is always a good idea before you stop drinking and definitely get rid of the alcohol in your house. You can do this!
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Upstate New York
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Hi Steve! You've made a great decision to take action now. I wish I'd done that in my 20's - my life would've been completely different.
Glad you joined us - there's always someone around for support and caring. You're on your way to a better life.
Glad you joined us - there's always someone around for support and caring. You're on your way to a better life.
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