a lesson in what it means tobe SOBER
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a lesson in what it means tobe SOBER
World English Dictionary
sober
— adj
1. not drunk
2. not given to excessive indulgence in drink or any other activity
3. sedate and rational: a sober attitude to a problem
4. (of colours) plain and dull or subdued
5. free from exaggeration or speculation: he told us the sober truth
Today I received news on multiple fronts that could signify big changes in my life. I over-reacted,was making knee jerk decisions, and suddenly realized I was spinning out of control. EPIC MELTDOWN IMMANENT
Thankfully I have been working a program of recovery for some time, and I know how and when to get quiet.
What came in the quiet was first the fact that I had an extra cup of extra dark coffee this morning, and I was high as a kite on caffeine.
Now I am going to hit a meeting, have some lunch and stay in faith, and wait for the darn crash
sober
— adj
1. not drunk
2. not given to excessive indulgence in drink or any other activity
3. sedate and rational: a sober attitude to a problem
4. (of colours) plain and dull or subdued
5. free from exaggeration or speculation: he told us the sober truth
Today I received news on multiple fronts that could signify big changes in my life. I over-reacted,was making knee jerk decisions, and suddenly realized I was spinning out of control. EPIC MELTDOWN IMMANENT
Thankfully I have been working a program of recovery for some time, and I know how and when to get quiet.
What came in the quiet was first the fact that I had an extra cup of extra dark coffee this morning, and I was high as a kite on caffeine.
Now I am going to hit a meeting, have some lunch and stay in faith, and wait for the darn crash
Glad to know that despite this recent knee-jerkness that you're doing well, friend. I miss you! 
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I really like the "sedate and rational" part of the sober definition...hadn't seen that before, thanks!
On a related side note I once had a terrible week when I had high octane green tea that gave me palpitations and shakes...even though I wouldn't give up my coffee for the world, caffeine really is quite powerful and, like any drug, must be used wisely.
Take care and hope everything works out for you!
On a related side note I once had a terrible week when I had high octane green tea that gave me palpitations and shakes...even though I wouldn't give up my coffee for the world, caffeine really is quite powerful and, like any drug, must be used wisely.
Take care and hope everything works out for you!
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Any outcome of change is determined by our attitude. Try to stay positive, stay focused and stay on your path.
I had some odd things going on but because I stayed on track, positive and released them -they are not boulders in my path. I never overlook a rock in my path...it could be a stepping stone or a mere obstacle I can kick to the side.
I had some odd things going on but because I stayed on track, positive and released them -they are not boulders in my path. I never overlook a rock in my path...it could be a stepping stone or a mere obstacle I can kick to the side.
Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
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Originally Posted by GF
I know how and when to get quiet.
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