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Old 01-02-2011, 07:11 AM
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Hi all-

I've been sober for over a year - whoop whoop!

It hasn't been easy, but it's worked. AA and SR (and a 4 month stint in outpatient therapy) worked. I'm sober and the obession of drinking has been removed.

I had to change who I was or the same me would drink again.

I had to become willing to new ideas and keep an open mind at all times.

I had to stop fighting, surrender, and accept my alcoholism and with that acceptance comes a lot of responsability.

...and finally, action, action, action. I simply coudn't "outthink" my alcoholism. Constant action had to be taken and lots of it.

It's been painful, awkward, embarressing, and pretty funny at times, but I've also, every so often, just once in a while, caught a feeling of peace, of calmness, of clarity, of true happiness and that has been a wondeful feeling.

Viva AA!
Viva SR!
Viva Recovery!

Since getting sober, my dad died a slow and painful death from cancer, the IRS came after me, I lost my license for a year, got sentenced for a 2nd dui and 2nd totalled car, my cousin died, my parents (Mom and step dad) got divorced. My point is life still happens and the world continued to spin, but I stayed sober.

We never have to drink again. We can and do recover (no matter what). I'm living proof of that.

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Old 01-02-2011, 07:18 AM
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Nice one on 1 year sober mate!! That's an awesome achievement!! It's great sharing this 'journey' with you!!

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Old 01-02-2011, 07:21 AM
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Viva You!

With all of those excuses happening in your life, you chose sobriety. That Rocks!
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Old 01-02-2011, 08:53 AM
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Kjell..just had to tell you your posts are direct and to the point. I get something out of them and you have helped me. Thank you. Congrats on your 1 year lady!!!
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Great job Kjell!
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Congratulations Kjell, very inspiring! Way to stay focused and sober while under ALOT of adversity...
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Old 01-02-2011, 09:03 AM
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Old 01-02-2011, 09:16 AM
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It's true....regardless of x or y or z....
you never have to drink again...

Uplifting post...
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Congratulations!

With the help of all of you, I can't wait to be able to say this next year!
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(((KJell))) - congratulations!!! Quite an amazing recovery story...yes, life still happens and it's not always good, but we never have to drink/use again to get through it.

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 01-02-2011, 09:45 AM
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Great post kjell, Congrats on 1 year! With all you went thru, your one strong person kjell! Be proud of yourself you deserve it.. Stay Strong.. I know you will because I can see it in your post.
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Great work my brother. You're such a great inspiration and I love seeing your posts whenever I log in.

We've been through a lot this past year (I'm on 9 months...just behind you). We both got sentenced for our second DUIs (even did our time in the same jail!), my mom and stepdad are divorcing, my mom's going through treatment for breast cancer (diagnosed 3 months before I stopped drinking, but it's dominated the year)...And we've both been through many other things in life that haven't been mentioned here.

I'm very glad that you're around to help when I'm going through those things. Great job on your 1+ year, and I can't wait to celebrate my birthday with you and everyone else here at SR.
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Congrats Kjell!!! What an awesome post to read for the New Year my friend!!!
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Congrats & be proud of your amazing accomplishment.
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Incredibly inspirational post, thank you.
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Congrats on the year! Nice job.
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Great job !!!! Wonderful accomplishment !!
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Old 01-02-2011, 01:09 PM
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Fabulous work! Wishing you the very best... you certainly endured a lot in 2010 and walked away without a drink. Good for you... and thanks for sharing you excellent accomplishment.
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Congratulations Kjell

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Congrats and you are an inspiration to me!
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