NeedingHelp7

AH flashed an "L" shape with his fingers at me. He did this through his car window as he was pulling away with our son in the car. What does this mean?

suki44883

Can't think of a nice way to say it, and not sure if this is what he meant, but forming an "L" with your thumb and forefinger is the sign for "loser." He sounds pretty juvenile to me. How old is your son?

NeedingHelp7

Son is 7, I don't think he saw it. And if that is what he meant, oh well. I just I didn't expect it, and didn't know what it meant. Usually I send son out on his way to him as I stay in the house. This time I was at the door. He must be miserable to be so juvenile.
Anything to try to tear me down. Not working. I'm too strong for that now.

suki44883

Good for you!! It's a given that the stronger you get, the more he'll try to rattle your cage. You're smart not to allow him to get to you.

liesagain

sounds like he made himself look like the LOSER!!!!
dont let it bother you

NeedingHelp7

Thankyou! .......... Thanks for helping me stay standing.

I'm not a loser, I'm not a loser, I'm not a loser.

sofacat

Did he really do that? What is he, 14?

Sorry NH

Suspicious

shame on you NH for marrying someone who is still in jr high school. TeeHee

starrynite

I had more than one counselor tell me that an addicts' growth stalls at the age they start heavily using. These days my kid seems to have more common sense than my EX. Hugs to you!

StillLearning1

Okay- I grew up in the 70's.. So bear with me, but something about our brain only hearing the word itself..
You are a Winner! You are a Winner!

(gee- do you think that if I change my screen name to something like, Phd.. I will finally get it.. can graduate?)

Hammerhead

Perhaps it's "code" for it's between me and my HP... (i.e. finger pointing up and one back at himself) :rotfxko

Seren

Hmmmm.....maybe next he'll break out the "cootie spray". What, is this man 12?

cessy68

lol.....

I'm so sorry, but I know what that means, and it's something my 13 year old boy does...............

I just started laughing because I can invision you, (not even knowing what you look like), sitting there baffled thinking, "what does that mean?"....

and HIM --- THE LOOSER driving away like the **** that he is.

What an idiot!

Hugs,
Love,
Cess

NeedingHelp7

Yep, unfortunately he has the mentality of a teenager sometimes. It's sad many years of drug use have led to that......I'm not letting it bother me. I hope someday he grows up. If he doesn't he may go further back to infancy.