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Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: West Midlands, UK
Posts: 107
Hello
Just wanted to say Hi to everyone, I've not been here in ages, for those that remember me I came here about a year ago when things hit crisis point!!
Me and Baby Bearfeet are well, Ex is still in our lives but my strength & ability to distance has vastly increased.
I remember reading some posts when I first came here that spoke about this journey. I couldn't comprehend such a thing just raw pain! but it's all true.
It happens in fits and starts and i've been back and forth and understand I will continue to but importantly I have moved!!!
So hello to the fab people who gave me their time, looking forward to catching up with & meeting the newer people.
x x x x x x
Me and Baby Bearfeet are well, Ex is still in our lives but my strength & ability to distance has vastly increased.
I remember reading some posts when I first came here that spoke about this journey. I couldn't comprehend such a thing just raw pain! but it's all true.
It happens in fits and starts and i've been back and forth and understand I will continue to but importantly I have moved!!!
So hello to the fab people who gave me their time, looking forward to catching up with & meeting the newer people.
x x x x x x
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: NY
Posts: 126
Hi there, I'm new here. I have an AH, we're still together and I'm trying really hard to make it through. Times are really, really hard & you know all about that sort of thing! I've been to 2 Al-Anon meetings and hope to go again this weekend.
Nice to meet you
Nice to meet you
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: UK
Posts: 1,149
I was thinking about the people that don't seem to post much anymore (and those I know have moved on) the day before yesterday, and wondered about you bearfeet.
I am glad you are well,
thank you for updating us
I am glad you are well,
thank you for updating us
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Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 6,784
bearfeet, I am so glad you posted... give a hug to little bearfeet!!
I do remember you, I am former Dreamer999. A year ago things were grim and it is outstanding how much we have changed in only 12 months? it is not that much time bearfeet. I am proud.
Me, I still see ex at work. Later we got a cocktail and I am anxious but I will go no matter what. It still gets me to hear his voice, my heartbeat is faster, but I make my graceful exit and read SR and I feel better.
I got a good partner now, 8 months. I got two cats too. Yesterday they slept hugging each other very close (I named them Dolce and Gabanna!) and they looked sooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeee... they are inseparable and learn tricks and habits from each other... they have been a gift, they have helped me get out of my depression. I arrive home and treat myself to cat-o-therapy, playing with them or seeing them play is the best thing, they make me laugh all day, and bring me back to the present...
I spend some afternoons resting on my bed, bf next to me, our 2 cats (and we all use each other as pillows lol)... reading Garfield, hugging my teddy bear... and I feel so grateful.
I feel so grateful I wake up to a man that has a good heart and would never never even dream about hurting me in purpose. The nightmare is over.. even if we visit hell again once in a while, we made it, bearfeet. We made it to the other side where real peace and joy reside !!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!! !
I do remember you, I am former Dreamer999. A year ago things were grim and it is outstanding how much we have changed in only 12 months? it is not that much time bearfeet. I am proud.
Me, I still see ex at work. Later we got a cocktail and I am anxious but I will go no matter what. It still gets me to hear his voice, my heartbeat is faster, but I make my graceful exit and read SR and I feel better.
I got a good partner now, 8 months. I got two cats too. Yesterday they slept hugging each other very close (I named them Dolce and Gabanna!) and they looked sooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeee... they are inseparable and learn tricks and habits from each other... they have been a gift, they have helped me get out of my depression. I arrive home and treat myself to cat-o-therapy, playing with them or seeing them play is the best thing, they make me laugh all day, and bring me back to the present...
I spend some afternoons resting on my bed, bf next to me, our 2 cats (and we all use each other as pillows lol)... reading Garfield, hugging my teddy bear... and I feel so grateful.
I feel so grateful I wake up to a man that has a good heart and would never never even dream about hurting me in purpose. The nightmare is over.. even if we visit hell again once in a while, we made it, bearfeet. We made it to the other side where real peace and joy reside !!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!
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