Please keep a friend in your prayers...

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Old 03-03-2009, 08:25 AM
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Unhappy Please keep a friend in your prayers...

There is a lady who rides to AA with me, and she's such a sweetheart. She has over a year clean and sober.

Her fiance is a truck driver and last night the police showed up at her door to tell her he had rolled his semi and was killed.

I don't think it's completely hit her yet, and I felt so helpless talking to her on the phone today when she called. I did tell her I will help her with anything that I can, and to hang strong to her program.

She's had a long haul, has Hepatitis C which did not respond to treatment and was given only 5 years to live. I'm so proud of her for staying sober.

My heart is breaking for her!
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Freedom, you're wonderful to hold this worry in your heart.
Sending up a prayer for your friend.
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Will definately keep your friend in my prayers. How tragic!
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Old 03-03-2009, 10:11 AM
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How awful. I will keep her in my prayers.
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My prayers. Just be there for her.
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You're a good person. Praying, you'll have the right words to give her comfort
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Oh, DeVon....I'm so sorry to hear of your friend's loss. I'm praying that she can just keep making it through one moment at a time.... :praying

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(((DeVon)))

Sending lots and lots of hugs and prayers to your friend, and you.

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I'll keep you and your friend in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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((Freedom)), sending my prayers for your friend, I am glad that she has you for a friend..
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What a difficult and tragic loss. I'm praying for your friend.
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sending a hug to you and your friend....how tragic....

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I am sending heartfelt prayers and strength. I am so sorry for your friend.
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I'm so sorry for you friend and will be praying for her and you.
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Lord, for her peace and stillness of her soul and spirit. May she heal and be well in body and mind.
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prayers for your friend, and for you to know just what to do to help her.
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Old 03-04-2009, 10:01 PM
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My friend has been surrounded by loving people in the program. She did ride along with me today to Walmart (35 miles) to pick up my old dog's heart meds. She said she was so glad to get out of the apartment.

She talked about a lot of memories and cried during the ride. I'm just glad she is talking about the pain and working her way through it.

One of my sponsees stopped by yesterday with food, and some candy in case her blood sugar gets low (she's also diabetic, and so is my sponsee). One of our AA members is driving her all the way to Colorado on Friday for the viewing, and then will attend the funeral with her on Saturday (he's being buried where his brother lives).

Her first disability payment comes in on the 11th of this month, and I told her I would help her with a budget. She is also a little slow mentally, and her fiance always took care of the finances.

With God's grace and continuing support from her friends in recovery, I am confident she will come through this still sober and realizing she has a lot of people who love her.

Thank you for all your prayers.
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(((DeVon)))

I'm so glad she has you, and some other wonderful people to help her out. I'm continuing to send hugs and prayers!

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I will be praying for your friend and the people around her. I'm glad she has wonderful people around to help her at this time.
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