My son finally called~~~~

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Old 01-14-2008, 10:26 AM
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My son finally called~~~~

I came home from my Dr's appoinment this morning to hear my sons voice on the answering machine. At least then~~I knew he was alive. Just sitting there thinking about what I was going to say when I returned the call my cell rang. It was him!! I answered and he told me he had been home all wee-end but without minutes on his cell. The landline phone went in this morning. I talked to him quite briefly and we said good-bye. He supposably (sp) has money so why didn't he get cell minutes??? He told me I could have shown up there if I was so worried and apologized for makiang me worry but realized he has done this to me. He is never rude to me. Thats something I don't understand. So many moms and dads say that their addicts go off on them. This has never happened here~~~~YET! My Dr. talked to me a long time about addicts and what I should be doing for me now. She put me on Effexor XR to just take the edge off of my anxiety for now.....FUN!! Now I am taking drugs. Drives me batty. Just thought I'd stop by and tell you that Chris did call and for the moment things are OK.....for him anyways. Smiles, Bonnie
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Old 01-14-2008, 10:57 AM
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Bonnie glad to hear that you got the call to ease your fear.
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Old 01-14-2008, 11:01 AM
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Hi SS~~~I got the call and know he's alive but I'm still not so sure he's doing well. Our conversation was so short. I think he's getting the clue that mom is at the end of her rope. A good thing ?? Hugs
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Old 01-14-2008, 12:58 PM
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Bonnie,
Glad he called, saves you the trip over there tomorrow!

Work on you Bonnie, and let his H.P. look after him....

You're going to be okay...
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i am sure glad you got the call. it sure helps when they check in, u at least know they are still alive. keep coming back & let us know how u are doing.prayers,
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Just goes to show - the crap we put ourselves through while they are totally oblivious to the fact that we are going insane! Glad you are both OK.
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Old 01-14-2008, 06:25 PM
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I know how glad you are to hear his voice.
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Old 01-14-2008, 07:05 PM
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I WAS glad to hear his voice but I wanted to scream at him.......My Dr. told me today I COULD get mad but Alanon says "Step away from the Addict".........I'm so confused.....
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Old 01-14-2008, 08:58 PM
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Get mad at the disease.

Your son is just doing what they do.

It's probably not intentional.


It's okay, get mad, work it through, you'll feel better.

You're going to be okay, Bonnie.


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