chachauk

My ex addict boyf is currently in rehab. he came home for xmas for 6 days over xmas. I havent spoke to him for over a month as i decided to detach for the remainder of his treatment. He sent me a message when he came home wishing me a happy xmas. the next day he texted again asking if i knew any good clubs to go to over xmas, this got me so angry as he had only been out of rehab 24hrs and he wanted to go clubbing!! but i think he did this to get a reaction out of me. i ignored him and went on a trip for 3 days over xmas. when i got back i switched my cell on and i had another message from him saying he hopes we can be friends and that he has 6weeks left of rehab when he goes back and after that he is staying in another town which is 150 miles from where we live. i'm not sure if he is telling me these things to get me upset or am i being over senstive!!:puppet any advice?

geees poncho

I think a good rule for this situation would be, believe nothing of what you hear, and half of what you see. same rule applies to gossip, except this is a person in treatment, and they don't know what they want, or what their saying. really don't pay much attention to anything they do or say, he's very confused right now.

Barbara52

I found that I had to reject any contact with my AH when I first left him. I needed peace and calm to begin my own healing. I knew if I had contact with AH, it would be drama.

hello-kitty

Be glad he is your ex.