angie9

I went to the local police station and spoke to victim support and child protection has being alerted and said basically if I dont leave him they will step in so looks like my dessision has being amde for me :0( Im off to see a lawyer and then welfare and I may have to go to a woman refuge as well I dont know what Im spose to really be feeling just at the moment very tired SOBER but tired and sad

Dee74

hey Ang...I'm so so sorry it's come to this, but you know - your safety and the kids welfare have to come first.

So proud of you not drinking

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stone

(((((Ang))))) Definitely speak to a lawyer right away Ang. I am sorry you are going through this, well done for staying sober too hun.

angie9

it hurts dosent it Ive never really expereinced anything like this not nice :0( but I think in my heart I know I have to do it

Dee74

Ang

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angie9

aww thanks Dee :0)
Ang

scaredykat

Hi Angie.

I know the pain your feeling. It is really hard. But Dee is right. You have to do this for your safety and your children. Life will get easier for you again. You'll see. And, I am so proud of you for not drinking. You have a lot of strength and courage in you.
You don't know how proud i am of you. It makes me real happy to see another woman get help.

Barb

indigo

I am holding you in my thoughts and heart, for peace of mind. Congrats on not picking up.

parentrecovers

angie, do the next right thing for yourself and your children.

and i am really proud of you for staying sober.

hugs and support, k

Missymae737

Hi Ang,

I know it hurts...It particuarly was painful for me because I couldn't fix him...

Just remember, abuse is never justified...

Thinking of you...

NOMOMERLOTMAMMA

That's good news to hear Angie. You are amazing! Enough crap to deal with and you ARE NOT DRINKING. THAT is admirable.

You rock.

Karen

Alive

I am glad those kids have such a great mom...There aint no bigger blessing than that..

angie9

:0( :0( :0( I went to the lawyers and they said I could get him kicked out basically but he said yes he will go back on his medication and have councelling as I said that he would have to go if he dosent but child protection has warned if I dont do something they will so Im going to ask would they consider him doing this and staying or do I have to kick him out . I spose I better ring welfare too I feel so jumbled at the moment...still sober tho

Dee74

hey Ang...sorry it's so hard sweetie....ultimately tho you have to do what *you* think is best for you and the kids....

wish I had better advice

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angie9

cyps says he has to go which means I will lose this computor so that has stressed me more

Alive

that sucks..a year ago i didn't have a computer of my own....only now i know how much it's needed in support...

i hope you can get one..i've seen here laptops at 150 euros, from the government...hope you can get some computer hun...

love ya..

Dee74

gee I'm sorry Ang...and don't stress - maybe something can be worked out about the computer - it's important for you (and I don't mean Trade Me )


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parentrecovers

support and hugs to angie, k