countrygirl

Three hard days. On the morning of day four I said, "How about giving this drunk thing a rest, it's getting old." He said okay.

He laid around, not doing anything. Next day, someone called with a temp job and off to work he went. He comes home very tired, has only a few beers, eats and goes to bed. We got along, things were fine.

Several good days in a row! I know it is not forever but I sure did like those days.

matters

Hello countrygirl,

Savor the good times! Just keep taking care of YOU though. Sounds like he is trying and that is a positive thing.

Take care,
matters

Debbie

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I love those sober days too. Sometimes I get a little too content with them, and I need to kick myself in the butt and remember to take care of me. So please make sure you take care of you!!

Many hugs,
Debbie

countrygirl

Yes, exactly, gentle reminders to take care of me. Thank you.

lyn_blossom78

So glad to hear you're enjoying a few nice days! Take time for yourself!

Lyn

constant

Glad to hear that you're enjoying a few good days strung together. As everyone has already said.....keep working on yourself even through the good days!!!!

Enjoy and have a great weekend!

Constant

liddy

Dear country girl
thinking of the nice days you've had-how much we appreciate each day in itself. something i didnt always used to do.
things have not been too good with me lately, my daughter has been drinking to great excess, not that she ever realy stops but her options are running low , very close to not having a home with her husband. or any home.
but through the program and trusted friends I am living my life and keep trusting my HP to handle her. Yesterday i found myself yelling at God to take care of his daughter ! a low moment and how do I know he isnt??

we keep on one day at a time
hugs
liddy