H is caught in his on trap...
the girl can't help it
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H is caught in his on trap...
Seems he took one of his drug buddies over to one of our real friends house. This person stole a few small valuable items from our friend including a favorite pair of her shoes. Our friend wants her shoes back and is going to file a police report...
H is pretty upset about it. I tried to ask him some questions about this drug buddy. Because the person is a woman he thinks i am jealous and am asking questions to feed this....I told him I could care less about his relationship with this person that I just wanted to get our friends stuff back if possible especially the shoes she is very upset about her shoes they are brand new and very expensive. I am pissed too but only for my friends stuff. I feel quite detached from my H though. I really can't believe he would have brought this person into our good friends house...just more evidence that he is going lower...
I must admit I am somewhat enjoying watching him squirm....
H is pretty upset about it. I tried to ask him some questions about this drug buddy. Because the person is a woman he thinks i am jealous and am asking questions to feed this....I told him I could care less about his relationship with this person that I just wanted to get our friends stuff back if possible especially the shoes she is very upset about her shoes they are brand new and very expensive. I am pissed too but only for my friends stuff. I feel quite detached from my H though. I really can't believe he would have brought this person into our good friends house...just more evidence that he is going lower...
I must admit I am somewhat enjoying watching him squirm....
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Aw Splendra
I'm sorry for what you and your friend have to go thru. Ultimately, the decision and action to get her shoes back rests with her... and it was her decision to let him and his companion into her house in the first place.... but you already know that.
Once again, an A does what As do. It's hard for us to sit back and watch, but there's really nothing we can do about it except pray for all involved and thank our HP for our own program of recovery.
Remember, even if she does file a police report, it doesn't reflect upon YOU. It's between her and the person who stole her shoes. My inner b*tch wishes they cause the shoe stealer to have really bad blisters.....
Cats
I'm sorry for what you and your friend have to go thru. Ultimately, the decision and action to get her shoes back rests with her... and it was her decision to let him and his companion into her house in the first place.... but you already know that.
Once again, an A does what As do. It's hard for us to sit back and watch, but there's really nothing we can do about it except pray for all involved and thank our HP for our own program of recovery.
Remember, even if she does file a police report, it doesn't reflect upon YOU. It's between her and the person who stole her shoes. My inner b*tch wishes they cause the shoe stealer to have really bad blisters.....
Cats
the girl can't help it
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Join Date: Apr 2004
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No my friend did not decide to let this person in her house my friend has a room mate that my H has been hanging out with and the room mate asked if H could arrange a "date" for him H introduced roommate of my friend to this girl.
Friend trusted H and room mate. Room mate is a big drinker... Friend called me to ask if I knew some one who drove the car...I said I did not know the person... which I don't.
I heard H screaming at her on phone but he was out side so I don't know what he said to her nor do I care. I asked him to tell her that friend is filing a police report though...
still enjoying watching the squirming though...
Friend trusted H and room mate. Room mate is a big drinker... Friend called me to ask if I knew some one who drove the car...I said I did not know the person... which I don't.
I heard H screaming at her on phone but he was out side so I don't know what he said to her nor do I care. I asked him to tell her that friend is filing a police report though...
still enjoying watching the squirming though...
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Sorry that your friend faces this issue for being a nice person and I sure hope she gets her stuff back soon. I did a double read...a blind date request and the answer was an addict....oh my...guess he is sinking.
You sound great...so easy to get dragged into the drama but you aren't. Hugs
You sound great...so easy to get dragged into the drama but you aren't. Hugs
the girl can't help it
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My friend was not at home when this incident happened. Several of our friends have called me this summer asking what is going on with H...I have tried to stay out of it and told them they need to ask him. I am not going to fix any of his messes any more...
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Whenever the "consequences" or outcome involves so many people, I always tend to believe HP is in charge.... MY way only ever involved just the addict. This way - LOTS of folks are learning lessons.
I admire your strength, Splen. ((prayers and hugs coming your way))
I admire your strength, Splen. ((prayers and hugs coming your way))
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UUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Why is your "husband" hanging out with other women? Shouldnt he be at home with you? Honey you need to let that go and get you a new life. You should have to deal with his sh*t in any form!!
sorry.....had to say my peace!
Why is your "husband" hanging out with other women? Shouldnt he be at home with you? Honey you need to let that go and get you a new life. You should have to deal with his sh*t in any form!!
sorry.....had to say my peace!
the girl can't help it
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My H does what he wants, I do what I want, if he wants to hang out with crack hos he can....
He just can't sleep in my bed any more and certainly he and I no longer have a sexual relationship for a few years now...
the shoes were $160.00 shoes.... our friend is absolutely furious at my H. I don't really feel much at all it like it is par for the course....
He just can't sleep in my bed any more and certainly he and I no longer have a sexual relationship for a few years now...
the shoes were $160.00 shoes.... our friend is absolutely furious at my H. I don't really feel much at all it like it is par for the course....
the girl can't help it
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yea he is still in the driveway....getting more pitiful everyday,,,but, he still tried to turn this incident around and make it my fault. I just laughed in his face....what a jerk.
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