Lost Child
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Lost Child
I just have to comend you for your outstanding support, encouragement. and great advice in the thread for big trouble.
Like everyone here and myself keep telling you. You have it in you.
I am at a loss for words for the encouragment you showed her.
It was very touching for me. Absolutely phenominal.
I wish you could follow that wonderful knowledge you hold for yourself.
You are truely a shining star.
Like everyone here and myself keep telling you. You have it in you.
I am at a loss for words for the encouragment you showed her.
It was very touching for me. Absolutely phenominal.
I wish you could follow that wonderful knowledge you hold for yourself.
You are truely a shining star.
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You beat me to it Chiynita!
Most of us wanted to help and didn't know what to say...and here comes Lost Child with a CHAMPION post that was absolutely brilliant and could not have been more appropriate or helpful.
Most of us wanted to help and didn't know what to say...and here comes Lost Child with a CHAMPION post that was absolutely brilliant and could not have been more appropriate or helpful.
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aw thank you for ur message. **blushes**
I just wanted to help BT I wanted to share my experiences, my knowlede and information that I have when I'm feeling the same way that she is. If I can help one person, then I feel that my past, my feelins have a meaning..if that makes sense.
I hope she is ok, and that she was able to reach out in real time.
Thoughts are with BT and everyone else who is struggling at the moment.
Lost x
I just wanted to help BT I wanted to share my experiences, my knowlede and information that I have when I'm feeling the same way that she is. If I can help one person, then I feel that my past, my feelins have a meaning..if that makes sense.
I hope she is ok, and that she was able to reach out in real time.
Thoughts are with BT and everyone else who is struggling at the moment.
Lost x
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LC.....did I make a mistake when I said STOP!?
I was taught that by a therapist to use to get someone to stop a thinking process...but it may not have been taken kindly.
I want to know what you think, and don't worry you won't hurt my feelings, I am just trying to learn.
I was taught that by a therapist to use to get someone to stop a thinking process...but it may not have been taken kindly.
I want to know what you think, and don't worry you won't hurt my feelings, I am just trying to learn.
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Stone, ur saying says it all..I can give the advice, the care, the understanding, but when it comes to applying it to me, well that just seems impossible at the moment...but if I keep given the advice, the support, the care, u never know one day it might hit me in the face...and say "Hey Nash, apply it to u, and accept it"....
Live, I don't think u made a mistake when U said STOP..to be honest with u, when u are in the frame of mind that it sounds like BT was/is in, we need to be reminded of the smallest things, all common sense, compassion, love, care just disappears....being told to Stop, to think, to listen...can remind us to just breath for a minute...to step back, out of the box and look in...if that makes sense? Ok, sometimes it doesn't work, sometimes it does....I don't know if I've answered u correctly, sorry...
Lost xx
Live, I don't think u made a mistake when U said STOP..to be honest with u, when u are in the frame of mind that it sounds like BT was/is in, we need to be reminded of the smallest things, all common sense, compassion, love, care just disappears....being told to Stop, to think, to listen...can remind us to just breath for a minute...to step back, out of the box and look in...if that makes sense? Ok, sometimes it doesn't work, sometimes it does....I don't know if I've answered u correctly, sorry...
Lost xx
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it make sence to me..cuz that's how i got well
cuz that one moment make all that differents
or is the truning piont and for some reason i know
what your saying about the box.
it kind of like someone really, really understands me.
but i didn't really know to go about expressing
now i felt or saw things, But when you share how you
felt...you know.. that's exactly how i felt. it totally
blew my mind and I started crying.
becuase I didn't know what the hell i was feeling all
those years so I didn't know how to go about processing
it, but when you put it like that, i was able to identified
my feeling and process them and it was okay.
i felt sane or not totally alone..dose that make sense ?
I'm not really good at expressing myself with words.
So I guess everyone has a gift.
cuz that one moment make all that differents
or is the truning piont and for some reason i know
what your saying about the box.
it kind of like someone really, really understands me.
but i didn't really know to go about expressing
now i felt or saw things, But when you share how you
felt...you know.. that's exactly how i felt. it totally
blew my mind and I started crying.
becuase I didn't know what the hell i was feeling all
those years so I didn't know how to go about processing
it, but when you put it like that, i was able to identified
my feeling and process them and it was okay.
i felt sane or not totally alone..dose that make sense ?
I'm not really good at expressing myself with words.
So I guess everyone has a gift.
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