still feeling ok today
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still feeling ok today
hi all - i can't thank you all enough for the clarity your insights are giving me. i was up very late last night reading a lot of great material here. i have decided that i don't know how if i even want things to work out with my A anymore...just because i love him doesn't mean he is the right partner for me.
he actually just called a few minutes ago to "let me have my moment" - right from that comment i knew i was in a no win situation/converstation. i told him that i didn't think i was ready to talk, that i was confused about everything and i thought it would be best if we didn't talk for a while. a surprised "ok" was the response i received. then we ended the call.
i felt my eyes start stinging with hot tears after i hung up the phone but recovered fairly quickly.
of course he made a point of telling me he was FINE when he first called - WHATEVER - I am NOT playing these games anymore....please pray i can stay strong and stick to my guns!!!!
he actually just called a few minutes ago to "let me have my moment" - right from that comment i knew i was in a no win situation/converstation. i told him that i didn't think i was ready to talk, that i was confused about everything and i thought it would be best if we didn't talk for a while. a surprised "ok" was the response i received. then we ended the call.
i felt my eyes start stinging with hot tears after i hung up the phone but recovered fairly quickly.
of course he made a point of telling me he was FINE when he first called - WHATEVER - I am NOT playing these games anymore....please pray i can stay strong and stick to my guns!!!!
Sweetie... its ok to cry, in fact its probably the best thing you can do for yourself.
They always say they are fine .... but you know that already so dont even give that any thought.
I will pray that whatever is in your best interest happens hon.... Just keep reading and you are so right..... just because we love someone does not mean we have to have a relationship with them.
They always say they are fine .... but you know that already so dont even give that any thought.
I will pray that whatever is in your best interest happens hon.... Just keep reading and you are so right..... just because we love someone does not mean we have to have a relationship with them.
Take your time to think this through. You'll arrive at the right choice for you. I wish I had taken the time to research and really understand the disease of alcoholism before marrying my husband. I wish I had allowed myself that informed choice.
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thank you everyone!!!! of course, he has called twice, once on my cell phone, and once on the home phone within the last 1/2 hour - i didn't answer either call and he did not leave a message. i am confident he is not sober tonight and have no interest in engaging with him...hope i am as strong tomorrow! good night everyone and thanks again.
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