a little lost :/
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a little lost :/
At the end of last year I got out of a very messy relationship.
My ex has bi polar with schizophrenic tendencies and self harms very badly (I myself self harm)
I found that, that relationship has taken too much out if me and I can't function in reality very well any more. I live with my friend and every day she asks what the f**k is wrong with me. No are you okay, or would you like to talk about it. And if she wants to talk about it she demands it out of me.
Does any one have any ideas for ways to help with dealing with this shite?
My ex has bi polar with schizophrenic tendencies and self harms very badly (I myself self harm)
I found that, that relationship has taken too much out if me and I can't function in reality very well any more. I live with my friend and every day she asks what the f**k is wrong with me. No are you okay, or would you like to talk about it. And if she wants to talk about it she demands it out of me.
Does any one have any ideas for ways to help with dealing with this shite?
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Welcome to SoberRecovery spacecadet.
I would be assertive in the same situation. I might say something like: Although I appreciate you giving me a place to stay during this hard time for me. I feel when you keep asking or questioning me like you do about my situation, I get depressed and anxious. For now on I wont be responding to those questions any more.
I would be assertive in the same situation. I might say something like: Although I appreciate you giving me a place to stay during this hard time for me. I feel when you keep asking or questioning me like you do about my situation, I get depressed and anxious. For now on I wont be responding to those questions any more.
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