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Old 08-24-2014, 03:51 PM
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Cool AA and Resentment.

In my country there is a split of sorts in AA.
It goes back some 25 years and seems to relate strongly to egoism and resentment.
As things stand the N.S.W GSO has refused to provide Victoria with AA literature for over four years. In a way we are seen as not to to exist.............
AA has never claimed to be perfect, and it is a shame that hard line ideologists at the top level can't seem to get their act together. A bit of compromise by both factions would certainly be welcome.
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why is there a split ? sorry i dont know your history so can you explain what its all about ? please
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As things stand the N.S.W GSO has refused to provide Victoria with AA literature for over four years.
that is a terrible thing
do they state a good reason for the refusal ?
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In my country there is a split of sorts in AA.
It goes back some 25 years and seems to relate strongly to egoism and resentment.
As things stand the N.S.W GSO has refused to provide Victoria with AA literature for over four years. In a way we are seen as not to to exist.............
AA has never claimed to be perfect, and it is a shame that hard line ideologists at the top level can't seem to get their act together. A bit of compromise by both factions would certainly be welcome.
I'm sorry, I don't understand. N.S.W. and Victoria are separate states, like Texas and Oklahoma, or Texas and California, etc. Why don't you have your own GSO, or just get the literature on your own; you shouldn't need to be dependent on a separate area? We, in Texas get our own literture, and not from other areas, but from our own.

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They probably would want a little donation from the money basket that gets passed around in your meetings

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My thoughts exactly NoelleR. Just get your own literature, and be done with it. Its so simple, so easy. Why make things difficult? Alcoholics love to make a mountain out of a mole hill.
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It's hard t get all the details.
The original issue, I think, was about a non authorized donation.
I am not into all the administrative stuff........
Keeping out of it largely; seems odd given AAs stance re resentment.
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Originally Posted by Bubovski View Post
It's hard t get all the details.
The original issue, I think, was about a non authorized donation.
I am not into all the administrative stuff........
Keeping out of it largely; seems odd given AAs stance re resentment.
why keep out of it ? its your aa just as much as anyone else s

but i do agree with other posters who suggest just getting you own literature, maybe a word with world wide gso saying your own gso is withholding the literature might also be a good idea ?
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why keep out of it ? its your aa just as much as anyone else s

but i do agree with other posters who suggest just getting you own literature, maybe a word with world wide gso saying your own gso is withholding the literature might also be a good idea ?
We do obtain literature from elsewhere.
A splinter group has evolved and they are in opposition.
This makes it very confusing for newcomers.
I don't keep out of it all together; I look to consensus rather than conflict though.
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Hi. Many reasons for such decisions are related to what is called the AA traditions of which many don’t understand. Without them AA will disintegrate. People are supposed to follow the traditions to the best of our ability and if it’s beyond fixing it can be taken to World Service in New York for finalization.
If I recall there is a limited amount of money AA can be given by an individual or business. Money can create chaos especially among alcoholics so there are limits.

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Originally Posted by Bubovski View Post
A splinter group has evolved and they are in opposition.
This makes it very confusing for newcomers.
What is the name of the splinter group?
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"People are supposed to follow the traditions"
Most dont even follow the 12 steps!
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Originally Posted by Bubovski View Post
In my country there is a split of sorts in AA.
Sounds impossible to me. The Big Book defines AA and there's only one.
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What is the name of the splinter group?
The splinter group is made up of a minority of Victorian groups supported by the GSO which is located in another Australian state.
Irrespective of which group is 'right', in their interpretations, this causes confusion.
It is a shame some general consensus has not been reached.
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Seems weird. Isnt AA all about service, UNITY and recovery? Seems to me that by refusing to acknowledge a group as AA would contradict the very traditions that they are attempting to protect?

I is confuzzled.
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I is confuzzled.
It ain't you, it's them. We're not playing Tom Clancy's Splinter Cell here.

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The splinter group is made up of a minority of Victorian groups supported by the GSO which is located in another Australian state.
Irrespective of which group is 'right', in their interpretations, this causes confusion.
It is a shame some general consensus has not been reached.
This is interesting.
In the OP it was stated that the NSW GSO declined to provide AA literature to Victoria.
But there is a listing for an AA Central Service Office in Prahran, Victoria. Can your group not get AA literature from that CSO?
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This is the 'Johnny come lately' C.S.O. that is supplied and supported by the Sydney G.S.O.
The original Victorian CSO has existed since 1947 while the Prahran group has been around less than 20 years. The new is attempting to replace the old, supported by the GSO in another state (N.S.W.).
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