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venuscat 01-03-2017 01:15 AM

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dearest FBL! :hug: ♥

Delilah1 01-03-2017 01:20 AM

Toots, will keep you and your mom in my prayers.

tootsl1 01-03-2017 03:32 AM

Thank you all for your words of support and your prayers. I am heading home shortly, as I am due back at work Thursday. My mom is feeling a little better in herself but it's easy to see how stressed she gets...

FBL, I think you have it on the nose, I believe the cough is stress related. Unfortunately, my father, sick or well is a high stress person to live with. She loves him and worries about his health, but she is also not so tolerant of him as she used to be. The problem is that their habits and behaviour patterns are now so ingrained, there is not likely to be any change now.

I am glad to be heading home, My moms spirits have lifted with me being here, but if I'm here any longer I will end up adding to her stress. I wish I could give her a real break, but she wouldn't leave my dad now, regardless of what cover we could arrange.

Saskia 01-03-2017 03:40 AM

Good morning, Overs!

Toots, it's hard to see our parents in situations like yours and be limited in what we can do to help. :hug:

Have a terrific Tuesday to all.

FBL 01-03-2017 04:13 AM

Hang in there, Toots! Many of us are dealing with aging parents and can relate.

Thanks again for the B-day wishes yesterday. My cold is pretty well gone. However, I was coughing so hard, that my pleurisy is acting up. Oh well, this too shall pass.

Have a Terrific and/or Tolerable Tuesday, overs!

Kris47 01-03-2017 06:01 AM

Have a day full of Sunshine no matter the Weather!

stargazer016 01-03-2017 06:55 AM

Good morning Overs!

Welcome back to the work week for some of you. Warmish and rainy in my neck of the woods. Perfect day for running errands all day, lol!

Take a moment and appreciate the people in our lives whom have made such a difference for us. Parents, friends, coworkers, my SR family, and realize just how lucky we are to not only have escaped booze, but still have meaningful relationships with others still intact after the rocky journeys we have endured. Life sometimes is too short. It is never too early to be gracious to those that care about us.

Have a great day all!

petals 01-03-2017 06:59 AM

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New year.xx

Gilmer 01-03-2017 01:14 PM

You too, Petals!

That was an excellent post, SG!

gleefan 01-03-2017 05:13 PM

Fbl - In my post holiday fog I forgot to wish you a happy birthday!! I really enjoy our cheerful disposition and relaxed outlook on life.

Stargazer - Gratitude is a great muscle to exercise. Is the foundation of a better life for me too.

Have a great day Overs!!

Itchy 01-03-2017 09:24 PM

Suze you too!

Megs,
Thanks!

Delilah!
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Thanks Andy!

FBL,
Hope you feel better, and are over your cold too, bada boom!
I wrote a post on time and lost it last night! So a belated wish for you youngster. I was 14 and no longer a virgin when you were putting your Mom in labor.

:hb3

Sassy, you are so right, it takes time and following orders. I am so sore from the Physical Terrorists first session and my homework!

Artemis,
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Gil,
Kris' advice to take care from yourself is good advice.

Thanks Kris, you're right, adding another two months and I dang well better be better!

RZ,
I'm tickled for you guys! I'd have loved to be there.

Gil,
I will remain stout and true. (emphasis on the stout) :lmao

Toots,
Yes it is better already! And with that cue, newbie here is the Overs secret hip shake and member greeting moves you must learn and greet any of us with in the real world:
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You too Toots! (I'm glad orange doesn't suit you)

Sassy, you know what the problem with family is? Family!

Dharma,
I'm fine just grouchy, testy, temperamental, and grumpy from frustration. Other than that I'm not unwell!

Suze!

Star,
I'll heal from these. Thanks.

Delilah,
Thanks you're a sweetie. Your moves are above ^^^^^

Aww Toots,
We just dealt with our Dad just taking a nosedive after losing Mom. It is tough. All you can do, especially if they are vulnerable, is be there to help them pick up the pieces.

Happy New Year to you too IP!

Glee,
You do ease up -good advice!

Star well said bud.

Hi petals! Hugs and hi!

I am, the rest is choice. I choose to love enough to share. I take me for granted too.

Treerat66 01-03-2017 11:39 PM

Good morning Overs.

Have a great day everyone.

FBL 01-04-2017 03:22 AM

Well, I'm getting over my cold just in time for the cold weather to arrive. Looks like sub-zero wind chills for the next few days. Just another January in Wisconsin:)

Have a Happy Hump-Day, overs!

tootsl1 01-04-2017 03:56 AM

Haha Itchy I knew you wouldn't be able to resist dancing!! Great moves there, almost good as new!

FBL feel better sweetie and wrap up in that cold weather.

Thanks again for all your support. I'm home down and dismantling Christmas for another year.

Have a wicked good Wdnesday everyone. ( do you know what day it is FBL????)

Saskia 01-04-2017 04:59 AM

Good morning, Overs!

Aha, Toots - I almost forgot that it's Hump Day :-)

Rusty Zipper 01-04-2017 05:16 AM

star, it was said to me

a grateful drunk will never drink again

Kris47 01-04-2017 05:42 AM

I'll go with that one today.

...............and make sure I do the next right thing..............

Have a Good day whatever it is!

stargazer016 01-04-2017 05:54 AM


Originally Posted by Rusty Zipper (Post 6276196)
star, it was said to me

a grateful drunk will never drink again

Love that!

Dharma33 01-04-2017 07:45 AM

Big Hugs from a fridgid Michigan to all Overs!!

Itch, so glad you are getting your moves back!!! ;)

petals 01-04-2017 02:19 PM

Cold here... off to hopefully get some sleep. Feeling very out of sorts the last few days and just can't shake it.
Will just have to let it be. Xx


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