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wingsfree 07-29-2006 09:23 AM

Missy :Val004:

Like life is one big joke on me. Like the Big Guy looks down and says, "HAHAHAHAHAHA, let's see how she handles this one!!!!!"
Oh I hear you on that one :c043: I've always felt the same way, LOL.

One of my favorite songs too Missy, I often have the song running in my head too.....was made a year before I was...lol....and guess what I found part of the song, everyone can listen to it. Ohhhhh I love Doris Day, her movies.

scroll down to music clips

http://www.reelclassics.com/Actresses/Day/day.htm

from THE MAN WHO KNEW TOO MUCH (1956)

Que Sera, Sera

When I was just a little girl
I asked my mother
What will I be?
Will I be pretty?
Will I be rich?
Here's what she said to me:

Que sera, sera.
Whatever will be, will be.
The future's not ours to see.
Que sera, sera.
What will be, will be.

When I grew up and fell in love
I asked my sweetheart
What lies ahead?
Will we have rainbows
Day after day?
Here's what my sweetheart said:

Que sera, sera.
Whatever will be, will be.
The future's not ours to see.
Que sera, sera.
What will be, will be.

Now I have children of my own.
They ask their mother,
What will I be?
Will I be handsome?
Will I be rich?
I tell them tenderly:

Que sera, sera.
Whatever will be, will be.
The future's not ours to see.
Que sera, sera.
What will be, will be.
Que sera, sera.

Seven, eight....cha cha cha :dancer5:

Nope not quitting.

Arura 07-29-2006 01:37 PM

Whip crack away, whip crack away...x

2dayzmuse 07-29-2006 03:06 PM

No need to feel stupid or beat yourself up Arura. Most of us learn the hard way. Consider it a lesson learned. Let's just say you were studying last night, right? Do whatever it takes to not pick up that first drink.

lulu70 07-29-2006 04:35 PM

Okay--I'm not sure why this is bothering me so much, but there is a BIG pool party going on right outside my apartment and I am about to cry. They have a keg and are playing frisbee and hanging out and having a loud, fun time.

Never mind.....I know why this is bothering me. I am wallowing in self pity. I am lonely and I am a little bit jealous. I know I could go out there and join them, but I would feel pretty uncomfortable and I don't really want to be out there in the heat with a bunch of drunk people anyway.

Sorry to vent. I just had to get that out. Now I feel better.

((((Arura)))) You will be okay. I'm certainly not disappointed in you. I'm just here, sending positive energy your way and having faith that you will make it through this. Hang in there.

ASH 07-29-2006 04:54 PM

Not Quitting Today

(((Laura))) Thanks for the "...I really dont want to be out
there in the heat with a bunch of drunk people..."
Drinking in the sun/heat used to make me sick before
I even had time to get the hangover, uggggg :a136:
The cool mall for an ice cream, yea, now thats a good diversion

Arura Great to see you today

Denise :danse1b: chachacha

Leanne best for me to keep my studying days,
or I should say my HEAVY research days behind me,
I must already have my PHD

Vic Right on, grateful for the hard days, reminder of what not to do :hitwithro

Missy May I learn to face my problems with Humility Dignity and Grace

(((DQs))) The futures not ours to see, but no quitting today

2dayzmuse 07-29-2006 05:00 PM

Hugs...(((Laura)))

Don't let it get to you hon. They need someone sober to rescue the drunk who falls into the pool. You know how it goes...

lulu70 07-29-2006 05:04 PM


Originally Posted by 2dayzmuse
Hugs...(((Laura)))

Don't let it get to you hon. They need someone sober to rescue the drunk who falls into the pool. You know how it goes...

Yeah..... yeah...... yeah.......

Arura 07-29-2006 11:46 PM

Good Morning to the DQs...x morning ladys.

Thanks muze, lulu,n ash,missy n Denise.

Well im back on the horse again thank you for all the kind words your so helpful, i dont feel so alone anymore.As recovery is a long trem thing...!

I would'nt be so sad about not doing the pool thing...Damn right about drinking in the sun :a136: the hangovers from that...nasty...! ice-cream sounds nice...x

NOT QUITTING TODAY...!

my b/f has bought me a triamasu pudding its in the fridge... wot do you do about that one...?:hypnotize

Luckyv2 07-30-2006 05:31 AM

Kath.....
Laci.....
Lee/Justme57 Day 1008
Little Missy Day 728
Sobriety1st Tonya Day 76
Luckyv2/Vic Day 66
LuLu70/Laura-Lu day 890
Miss Communicat/MC Day 236
Mrswoogie day 98
Nogard/Kevin Day 436
[email protected]_a_time Day 1482
Paper dolls day 239
Phinneas Day 652
Time2Surrender Day 431
True Blue/Janet Day 59
2dayz Day 755
AAFreeportPA day 1008
Alera Day 295
Amymarie DAY 43
Arura Day 3
Ash.....
Bonnie Day 1294
Cathy31 124 days
Denise/Wingsfree....
JaySee Day 679
Jhana ...hi all, still here and not drinking today! (new name)
Hope4life/Cheryl....Glad to be sober today!

In Memorium: Trish (((Miracle))) Forever with us.

Little Missy 07-30-2006 07:31 AM

((Arura)) Glad you are back at it!! Recovery is a journey, not a destination!!

((Laura)) I'm glad that doesn't happen in our neighborhood. I think I'd have a hard time with it also. But we have to remember, our sobriety is worth so much more!! I'd probably be knocking people into the pool!! LOL

Have a great 24 ((All))

wingsfree 07-31-2006 04:02 AM

Nope Not Quitting
 
You got it LeAnne, most of us do learn the hard way, lordy. How's your back, and yes the older we get yowza.

Arura....I'm soooooo happy you got back up fast, atta girl.

Ash how's your back? Any :HulaDancebeen happening? If so woohoo shake it girl shake it...cha cha cha.

Paperdolls hope you're feeling better today, not so sad.

Laura big hugs girl. We both know you weren't missing a thing, it would be MORE fun if the keg hadn't of been there. My neighbours are always having parties, I've sat outside along thinking I'm missing something too, then as the night goes on, they get louder, the music gets louder, which means drunker and crazier, this goes on till sometimes 5am, lovely, when some have to get up to go to work. The next morning you look over and see the mess from what they thought was a good time, all so sick, nope not missing a thing. I hope you soon find something that will make you happy, it's to bad we all didn't live close to one another....wouldn't that be great.

Missy that's right...sobriety is priceless. A reminder (stay away from pool when Missy is around, I can't swim) hehe.

Vic thanks so much for keeping things in order here, I'd have everything so messed up, lol.

Jana, Janet, Bonni, Laci, Kath.....woohooo thinking about you girls, hope everything is ok.
((((((Don't Quitters))))))) http://img191.imageshack.us/img191/8038/puppy2xn3.gif

Luckyv2 07-31-2006 04:50 AM

Kath.....
Laci.....
Lee/Justme57 Day 1009
Little Missy Day 729
Sobriety1st Tonya Day 77
Luckyv2/Vic Day 67
LuLu70/Laura-Lu day 891
Miss Communicat/MC Day 237
Mrswoogie day 99
Nogard/Kevin Day 437
[email protected]_a_time Day 1483
Paper dolls day 240
Phinneas Day 653
Time2Surrender Day 432
True Blue/Janet Day 60
2dayz Day 756
AAFreeportPA day 1009
Alera Day 296
Amymarie DAY 44
Arura Day 4
Ash.....
Bonnie Day 1295
Cathy31 125 days
Denise/Wingsfree....
JaySee Day 680
Jhana ...hi all, still here and not drinking today! (new name)
Hope4life/Cheryl....Glad to be sober today!

In Memorium: Trish (((Miracle))) Forever with us.


wingsfree Vic thanks so much for keeping things in order here, I'd have everything so messed up, lol.
I have a lot of things messed up to, but I try not to let it bother me but in reality it does. Just for Today, WE never have to use again.

wingsfree 07-31-2006 07:07 AM


Originally Posted by luckyv2
I have a lot of things messed up to, but I try not to let it bother me but in reality it does. Just for Today, WE never have to use again.

You're doing a great job here Vic....another thing to work on eh, not letting things bother us so much, after all we are human, not PERFECT.....imagine how boring we'd be if we were perfect. :C023:

Ok DQer's, badly in need of some prayers..a friend of mine has lung cancer, she's a good person, so full of life, a bubbly spirited woman, you'd all love her. She had surgery early this morning, they think they got all the cancer, she has to go back for more tomorrow.

My smoking brothers and sisters....please fight harder on stopping, toss the nic sticks, I know how hard it is to do, I quit years ago, so I understand.... but the fate with it well......

Little Missy 07-31-2006 05:47 PM


Originally Posted by wingsfree

A reminder (stay away from pool when Missy is around, I can't swim) hehe.


((((((Don't Quitters))))))) http://img191.imageshack.us/img191/8038/puppy2xn3.gif

And just think, I do all the aquatic therapy at work!! LOL :c031:

Arura 08-01-2006 02:10 AM

Quitting No Way not Today.

My fingers n toes are crossed today, But i WILL make it through another 24hrs without a drink...!

Have a great day ALL THE DQs :Val004:


:abcf: ............xxx.....me today...!

((Missy))...........xx

Luckyv2 08-01-2006 05:12 AM

Kath.....
Laci.....
Lee/Justme57 Day 1010
Little Missy Day 730
Sobriety1st Tonya Day 78
Luckyv2/Vic Day 68
LuLu70/Laura-Lu day 892
Miss Communicat/MC Day 238
Mrswoogie day 100
Nogard/Kevin Day 438
[email protected]_a_time Day 1484
Paper dolls day 241
Phinneas Day 654
Time2Surrender Day 433
True Blue/Janet Day 61
2dayz Day 757
AAFreeportPA day 1010
Alera Day 297
Amymarie DAY 45
Arura Day 5
Ash.....
Bonnie Day 1296
Cathy31 126 days
Denise/Wingsfree....
JaySee Day 681
Jhana ...hi all, still here and not drinking today! (new name)
Hope4life/Cheryl....Glad to be sober today!

In Memorium: Trish (((Miracle))) Forever with us.

Luckyv2 08-02-2006 03:57 AM

Kath.....
Laci.....
Lee/Justme57 Day 1011
Little Missy Day 731
Sobriety1st Tonya Day 79
Luckyv2/Vic Day 69
LuLu70/Laura-Lu day 893
Miss Communicat/MC Day 239
Mrswoogie day 101
Nogard/Kevin Day 439
[email protected]_a_time Day 1485
Paper dolls day 242
Phinneas Day 655
Time2Surrender Day 434
True Blue/Janet Day 62
2dayz Day 758
AAFreeportPA day 1011
Alera Day 298
Amymarie DAY 46
Arura Day 6
Ash.....
Bonnie Day 1297
Cathy31 127 days
Denise/Wingsfree....
JaySee Day 682
Jhana ...hi all, still here and not drinking today! (new name)
Hope4life/Cheryl....Glad to be sober today!

In Memorium: Trish (((Miracle))) Forever with us.

PaperDolls 08-02-2006 10:04 AM

:thefinger :yeah:

nogard 08-02-2006 02:21 PM

439 days of freedom from booze and from the 1/2 life I used to live.

Kevin

ASH 08-02-2006 05:09 PM

Not Quitting Today

(((Denise))) Sorry to hear about your friend,
glad she has someone like you for love and support
at such a difficult time

Kevin Aint freedom grand??? :supernan

(((DQs))) Stay free, no quitting today


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