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Gilmer 07-10-2018 03:15 AM

Hi, Cosima. Thank you for posting!

Thank you, Sass and Purps.

Rar 07-10-2018 03:33 AM

Sending hugs and prayers for a good day today Gilmer. :Valdog:

:ring

Gilmer 07-10-2018 04:16 AM


Originally Posted by fini (Post 6950011)
is part of being stoic a fear of falling apart?

I have never looked at my stoic manner of examining all available data then acting as totally unflinching.

Physically, maybe, I’ve often prided myself, but not emotionally: I usually flinch emotionally—but I view it like a prizefighter getting knocked down and doggedly getting back up again.

Interesting question about the determination not to break down emotionally.

I believe it started in kindergarten. I cried every single day at school, and the other kids would tease me.

So when I got to first grade I vowed never to cry in school again—and I didn’t (all except for once—and even then I held it off till nobody else could see).

Plus now for bipolar I’m on a mood stabilizer plus an anti-psychotic drug, and they dampen the intensity of my emotions for the most part.

Yesterday the sadness was just too much, though, and it ‘broke through.”

Gilmer 07-10-2018 04:17 AM

Thank you, Rar. I hope you have a good day, too. :)

Dee74 07-10-2018 04:32 AM

Have a good day today Kathy. Carpe Diem and all that :)

D

Gilmer 07-10-2018 04:40 AM

Thank you, Dee! :hug:

You carpe nightem! :)

Dee74 07-10-2018 04:43 AM

:lmao

D

Erratic 07-10-2018 04:49 AM

Wow Gilmer i just saw this post x i do hope ur able to find something.

My thoughts are with u hun and ur family. Tx for being there for me in the past and we are here for u if u need us xx

Have u looked into partial transplant of the liver? Birmingham university does alot of research in the liver, i know ur not in UK but u never know if they link with any other medical centres in this research xx

https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/news/la...ves-saved.aspx

Gilmer 07-10-2018 05:06 AM

Thank you, Erratic.

I will look into it.

bandicoot2 07-10-2018 06:03 AM

(((Gilmer))) You've been such an inspiration to me on the 24-hr. thread. Thank you for being here and showing us sobriety can be achieved with truth, dignity and humor. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

Gilmer 07-10-2018 06:08 AM

Thanks, Bandi! :)

badgerden 07-10-2018 06:19 AM

Good Morning Gilmer!

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Gilmer 07-10-2018 06:49 AM

That’s so funny, Badge!

I once took one of those online quizzes, “What’s your spirit animal?”

I was surprised at the results: the snake.

So I said to my son, “Guess what spirit animal I got!”

He paused a minute: “The sloth?”

LOL!

courage2 07-10-2018 05:20 PM

How has your day been, Gilmer?

Anna 07-10-2018 07:32 PM

I've been away Gilmer, and haven't been online much, but I've been thinking about you and sending positive vibes your way.

fini 07-10-2018 07:42 PM

what a gift to do this soberly....to know that when sadness 'breaks through', it is sadness, pure.

Gilmer 07-10-2018 09:01 PM

Thanks, you guys.

Today has been busy. I ended up with a constant dull pain in my stomach and a splitting headache.

Off to bed now.

Thanks for asking!

stargazer016 07-11-2018 02:05 AM

Hope you feel better this morning Kathy!

Gilmer 07-11-2018 05:23 AM

Thanks, SG. I do. :)

Life has become so rich, because people are coming forward to show their genuine concern, and the conversation tends to be deeper.

Obladi 07-11-2018 05:41 AM

I took the quiz to find out and I'm a turtle - exactly what I predicted when I started!

Kathy, I'm glad that people are starting to be open with you - that must be a relief and also very rewarding. It's a gift to have the opportunity to interact with the whole person, no?

Have a pleasant day and remember to take time for yourself.

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