I am sorry darling badge....I was working through my own stuff and didn't read about what was happening with you. I will have to look back.... :hug: ♥♥♥

No worries my friend, I didn't post anything, others here are going through their own battles so saw no need to throw my issues into the mix. Something I had to figure out on my own.

Much love to you

Badge

(((badge))) ♥

I get that....I am pretty private myself.....but the great thing about this thread is the incredible smarts and experience and....friendship...these guys and girls are gold. We talk about EVERYTHING in this thread. :hug:

So if you want to.... :) ♥♥

Sorry Suze wrote my story had an anxiety attack, deleted it. Maybe will try again someday.

Badge

Hi badge, good to see you. :wave:

Good morning Overs.

Hi Badge :grouphug:

I need to reconnect with the real world. The kids have work or school, I have projects I am working on but no one to share progress with. I've actually been going in to the funeral directors to have coffee and a chat three times a week. :lmao

Have a good day everyone.

Morning overs

Andy, well that’s a start! :biglaugh: but yeah, it does you good to get out and about a bit.

It’s not good to order groceries when you’re peckish! :eek: I’ll alter it later. It’s not coming until tomorrow morning.

Have a good Wednesday my friends. Love to all :grouphug:

Andy Have you considered joining a bereavement group? Then, maybe you don't want to be among a load of others reminding you of what you have lost. What about a night class or something? Or volunteering.

Badge, hugs hun x

That's for all the congrats. The big stuff starts now I guess with the mega downsizing we have to do!

Badge :grouphug:

Me and my co-worker put up the Christmas lights at the boss's house last night. Fran can see them from her window perch. She is still paralyzed, but in good spirits.

Have a Happy Hump-Day, overs!

Badge :hug:

Andy, whatever works for you. Perhaps funeral director is your last link to Mrs T? No matter - you do whatever works for you to do your processing. You had a long time when you needed to meet everyone else’s needs.

Toots, downsizing can be cleansing, too :-)

Hi Suze, SG, PJ, Mags and everyone else!

What a touching holiday story FBL!

Andy, I think Toots has a great idea about joining a bereavement group. As we have found with alcoholism, group support can help immeasurably.

Have a good day all!

badge....more love honey...... :hug:

Andy.....I like toots' idea of a night class.....the other thing that comes to mind is football of some kind....are you a soccer fan? Maybe it would be nice to go to games regularly...it's social but not too imposing.

Oh gosh....so much more....need more coffee: my brain is cold. ♥

prayers Andy

Love and prayers going out for Kathy and PJ :grouphug:, in our thoughts.

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new thread starts here:

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...part-65-a.html

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