Originally Posted by snoozyq (Post 6579042)

oh wow !

This saddens me to come here to this. Crois, i personally didnt see anything wrong in what you posted. I found the tips you gave leshar very helpful to myself and i know she would have appreciated the link.

I personally think that leshar is feeling she has nothing to contribute as she feels hopeless at present.

I think we all know each other well enough to understand each other. Especially as you are spot on in mentioning i was going through a hard time with angie lately and you are 100% right. You know when i dont t that something is usually going on. You know im not drinking so you were spot on with angie.

Its been very hard watching her go through this and at times it gets too much for me. I dont want to post about it whilst bobs lovely wife is going through chemo as i didnt want him to think this would happen to mrs bob xx all treatments are different and angies is far more extensive.

Your recall for things that happen to each of us is amazing. You remember names, places etc , i wish i could do that. But i need you here. We need you here.

I understand your aspergers as shaun has it. So many people misconstrue shauns intentions. Or straight up think hes rude. Its taken me years to work out his condition and i love him more for the way he tries to manage it. Its not easy.

We will just put it down to a misunderstanding and move on.:kiss: You are very dear to me so pkease stay , i mean that with all my heart xx

leshar, youre missed. Xxx message me if you cant post xxx

croutie, darling croutie. Im so sorry , it must be awful on the anniversary of your sons death. My thoughts are with you.
Can you tell us a bit about him. I know you probably did when you first became a julyer , but id love to hear about him. What was he like , how old was he, what did he like ? Im so happy youre one of us. We are so lucky to have nabbed you.

Just know im thinking of you croutie and sending you the biggest virtual squeezy hug and a big kiss on your cheek. Xxxx
you too leigh as i know this will also make you thing of your beautiful boy xxx

wolfy im sorry about your tooth...ouch !!!!! Nothing worse than a toothache or earache and extractions are the pits.

Suze , are you guys getting back on your footing now. Still so happy for you and nick and your upcomjng wedding. I love good news stories.

So many awful things in the world, a wedding is wonderful xx

gilmer how are you doing ? What stories do you have to tell xx

mags,lulu, bob, ladybug ( how are your buggies sweetie ? ) pj, pete, please post.

Casey , im really looking forward to one of your wonderful posts, i miss them.

Dee , is yoir mum still going ok? My mum has to have her cataracts done on tuesday. Never a dull moment with the parents, bless their little cotton socks.

I hope i havent forgotten anyone, i usually do...lol oops.

Im going to angies in the morning again with our mutual friend jan , to clean her house whilst she is at chemo. Will be a nice surprise for her. I took mum & dad up their today for a couple of hours.

We had lasagna and peach cobbler for dessert.....mum makes a mean peach cobbler.

Love each and every one of you xxxx


:kiss:

Originally Posted by resolute50 (Post 6579067)

Guy, just keep in mind that it's difficult to express true emotions without facial or body language. Many, many time things tend to get taken out of context.
Don't let that drive a wedge between members of my beloved class.

I will be back after church.
Love you all.:grouphug:

Originally Posted by PhoenixJ (Post 6579085)

I was considered, for a time as having Asp. My reactions externally do not fit the mold sometimes. That is okay, I have learned over years what I need to do. A tendency to read more into people's words and taking very seriously ALL that people say- is a downfall, especially matched with depression (clinical- since I was 4- or so THEY think). Partially a reason why I drank- confusion over others signals. Categorising my own.
Yesterday I signed final duivorce papers. My ex gets all she asked for. I saw one of my son's for the first time in years. He has indicated perhaps contact in the future. A bitter sweet moment. I get very concrete in looking at my feelings at times like this (or as much as I can- never divorced someone after 30 years). Just rambling now-
anyhow, prayers and support to all struggling today.

Originally Posted by LuLu13 (Post 6579221)

Wow, drama everywhere. Just like real life. Can't deal, I'm out!

Originally Posted by resolute50 (Post 6579316)

Ok, I'll deal, you'll just have to shuffle for me,LuLu.:c031:
Drama= life
And it happens even on SR.
When I drank it seemed like the drama/life was too much to handle.
But in reality it was all just an illusion. It seemed bigger than it really was. Alcohol does that. It takes away out focus and makes issues or everything that goes wrong seem so much bigger.
But, once the fog goes away it was nothing to get excited about in the first place,
I know in my house there is nothing bigger than God.
And nothing is too big for him.

Originally Posted by Gilmer (Post 6579238)

LuLu, please speak if something is troubling you. You will not be eclipsed by drama. I would like to hear how you're doing.

:hug:

Originally Posted by LuLu13 (Post 6579221)

Wow, drama everywhere. Just like real life. Can't deal, I'm out!