Are you asking God for guidance on how to handle XBF?

Can you picture in your head your Higher Power TAKING XBF from you? Can you picture in your head taking all the problems XBF has, and all your worries about what he is doing and what might happen to him in the future, and putting them in a big box, closing the lid, and handing that big box to your Higher Power?

Oh sorry, when I pray and ask for guidance, I am asking Him for guidance on myself in recognizing new doors to open for peace, growth, etc.. When I pray for my ex, I pray that He gently guides my ex (meaning, I am not involving myself in that prayer)