Chucktown...we have an extensive, excellent library, on the effects of alcoholism on the loved ones...there are a lot of them...lol...enough to read one every single day (with your coffee...lol)....I think you can gain a lot from those articles...that have been written from the experience and tears of those who have come before you....
Here is a link to those articles.....
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...c-reading.html (Classic Reading)