Originally Posted by Ken0331

Of course you do. I'd also wager a lot of people wished you'd "wake up", too.

You did, she didn't. That's how these things go sometimes. "But for the grace of God go I," is sometimes the best we can come up with.

But imagine by staying in that shi++y relationship you are passing up any opportunity of being available for that healthy one that could - and probably will - present itself later in life.