Welcome back!! This is an incredible site, and it has helped me finally make sobriety stick.
Sounds like you have a lot going on right now, and this site is one great resource to help for support.
Here are two great links:
What is a Recovery Plan
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...very-plan.html (What exactly is a recovery plan?)
Holiday Survival Guide
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ide-vers-2-0-a.