Originally Posted by
thousandwords53 
Troglodyte lol! Ariesagain I appreciate the laugh as I reread my old posts.
Just so all know:
Once a troglodyte, always a troglodyte.
Also, nothing changes if nothing changes
I always post as I'm starting to freak out that "I'm all wrong" and "he's CHANGING!!!" lol...if only I give it a day. Back at it again this morning making rude digs on my appearance and trying to hook me into a fight. Ha. Thanks for the reminder, buddy.
Similar experience here - you are not alone. And I have been divorced since summer of 2016 and living separately for almost two years, so not sure what my deal is. Shows that I still have a long way to go.
"He is changing, he has a job now....maybe I was wrong..."
XAH is "nice" enough to remind me that his issues are still there, and he still tries to get to me by making comments about my appearance, various array of backhanded compliments, and, if all fails, good ole very effecting cursing me out in public for no reason other than trying to read (which somehow triggered old thinking patterns).
Nothing changes if nothing changes is right! Keep coming back here when in doubt😊