Hi and sorry for what you are going through. Here is a link to a recent post - this is a very long post that started last year. If you will look on page 9 I believe it will pick up in April of this year. This male member here at SR was also accused falsely of Domestic Violence among some other horrible things by his wife.
Sometimes it helps to know you aren't the only one dealing with this kind of malicious, vindictive BS and that the Courts can recognize that.
I do think you need to consult an attorney ASAP. Doesn't mean you have to leave if you don't want to but will help you navigate IF she does accuse you of DV.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...son-car-9.html