Originally Posted by
MeredithD1 
If you can file a motion stating that your XAH violated the NC, then I think your lawyer sounds like she is attempting to predict the future by being so sure of the outcome. Maybe your XAH needs a good yelling at. Maybe something would change. Maybe something your lawyer can't psychically predict would happen. You have a lot of written evidence. Any judge worth his/her salt is going to take it into account.
theuncertainty,
I am going to agree with Meredith here.
What's to say you can't file a motion anyway? The court told you to provide the information about the bills - surely a judge would see that, even if your lawyer cannot. Sure, you broke contact, but how else would he get the information? You didn't egg him on or anything.
Perhaps the lawyer was triggered by a past experience, and is looking at that experience, rather than your situation?