JustMe...
There is nothing you could ever do that would seem cold hearted to us.
I love when Ann posts that "we are here to walk with you no matter what you decide."
I have struggled with my son's addiction and my addiction to rescuing him for 15 years.
I know the feelings and fears that come with not responding to calls and texts.
I've heard the messages left on my phone begging for help. I've rushed in "to the rescue" time and time again.
Finally, I decided that "letting go and letting God" sounded pretty good to me.
That being said, I couldn't agree more with Sojourner and Moose.
In my experience, it is probably hook and she is trying to reel you in.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ddicts-do.html
This is a link to a terrific post that is a sticky at the top of this forum titled, "What Addicts Do."
If you haven't seen it yet, it's worth a read. I have a printed copy I keep in my wallet at all times.
Love,
Hunny