Originally Posted by
sodetermined 
He has hurt me, and my son, tremendously, I have cried so many tears over him.
Yes.... I remember.
We were both going through really harsh situations at the same time... then.
We never deserved it (((((((((sodetermined))))))))))))
A thread with links I have found useful:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...99-thanks.html