This quote has made a real impact on me and I have this posted near my computer and phone - I read this bfore being tempted to return the call or respond to the emails from EXABF.
"Punching bags are for kick boxing classes.
Doormats are to make the entrance pretty.
None have my name on them."
Thanks to TakingCharge999 for these wonderful words of wisdom and inspiration.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...r-tonight.html