Originally Posted by
Hammerhead 
I remember reading on here... can't remember where.... but the alcoholic/addict needs us more than we need them and they WILL DO ANYTHING to keep us under their thumb... it's called "the dance".
From another topic.....but struggling again today since it day 1 full no contact. What's doesn't my XAGF need me more than? Or, will it come when she's done with experiment #1 BF?
Sure just wish HP would zap her into recovery seeking mode.