Originally Posted by
Freedom1990 
Do NOT feel guilty for going to your sponsor with your stuff. In sponsoring other women myself, it is such a gift for me because they help me get out of self and get through the tough times I have! Keep sharing with your sponsor, Glenna. There has been more than once when I have been working with a sponsee and found the solutions to my problems while working with her.
:ghug :ghug
plus she's a grown woman, if she needs space, or can't deal with something right then, she can let you know that. We can let go of trying to work out what other people want/need: they can tell us. (This is/was a REVELATION to me, growing up in a family where no-one ever says what they mean: its exhausting, and I, admittedly, am an olympiad at worrying about what people think, given that I have social anxiety/phobia, but I am trying and I love the theory)