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whopper 11-13-2017 06:09 AM

Guys I am in trouble, got dui charge
 
I screwed up guys, and got charged. I spent 1 night in the jail. I don't know what to do now. I can't even drive for 3 months, and I have to go to court next month. Can someone please advise me on what to do? Someone who has been thru something like this and has experience?

BixBees505 11-13-2017 06:20 AM

What’s to advise? You got yourself on the punishment track. The courts will do your advising for a good bit now.

Advice is to sober up and get with a program, for real. Can you use this as a needed wake up call? rather than yet another thing to engineer your way out of, only to have a more fatal outcome later?

andyh 11-13-2017 06:21 AM

take the bus :)

Maudcat 11-13-2017 06:25 AM

Hi, whopper.
Several posters have been in your situation.
Perhaps they will weigh in with their experience.
If this is your first offense, it may not be too bad.
Get an attorney, one who is experienced in handling dui’s.
And stop drinking, my friend.
Go to meetings and start working a program.
Don’t have to tell you that getting a dui is nothing compared to what could have happened.

Anna 11-13-2017 06:35 AM

I think it's a good idea to hire a lawyer to help you through this.

And, staying sober is the best thing you can do right now. Any way that you can show your sobriety to the court would be helpful.

FreeOwl 11-13-2017 06:37 AM

Get to AA
Get sober
Get an attorney
Get busy keeping your sobriety intact
Bit by bit life will be great

Behappy1 11-13-2017 06:44 AM

I agree with freeowl:

Do whatever it takes to remain sober and hire an attorney. Lots of variables here. Did you do a field sobriety test? What was your BAC? What state do you live in? Look up the laws in that state. What contributed to you being pulled over? Routine traffic stop, ran a stop sign, an accident, another driver reported you? Lots play into this.

If you go to AA, get a signature, if you go to rehab or an IOP have all of that documentation. The courts will take that into consideration. DO NOT drive on a suspended license at all and remain sober.

whopper 11-13-2017 06:45 AM

I am reading about how much this will cost me and its crazy. I am going to lose my mind. Can someone please help me.

StartingOverNW 11-13-2017 06:48 AM

Take it one day at a time, you don't have to try to solve it all at once, or deal with all of the consequences all at once. See if you can get yourself a lawyer who specializes in dui cases. You can turn this negative into a positive if you can use it as motivation to get sober.

whopper 11-13-2017 06:50 AM


Originally Posted by Behappy1 (Post 6671133)
I agree with freeowl:

Do whatever it takes to remain sober and hire an attorney. Lots of variables here. Did you do a field sobriety test? What was your BAC? What state do you live in? Look up the laws in that state. What contributed to you being pulled over? Routine traffic stop, ran a stop sign, an accident, another driver reported you? Lots play into this.

If you go to AA, get a signature, if you go to rehab or an IOP have all of that documentation. The courts will take that into consideration. DO NOT drive on a suspended license at all and remain sober.

I was not driving at the time but I was behind the wheel. I asked someone for help and the police show up. They give me breath test, but it didn't register since I could not blow hard enough.

Behappy1 11-13-2017 07:03 AM


Originally Posted by whopper (Post 6671154)
I was not driving at the time but I was behind the wheel. I asked someone for help and the police show up. They give me breath test, but it didn't register since I could not blow hard enough.

That’s a good sign. Did you. Do a field sobriety test? If you were behind the wheel HAD you driven?? Did you admit to driving? Call an attorney asap. Yes, this will not be cheap @ all. But take it a day @ a time, don’t drive and remain sober. Be thankful that nobody was hurt.

Have you checked into an IOP, rehab, AA or smart? I would start something immediately. You could also start on naltrexone, vivitrol, Antabuse or something medically rx’d and add meetings to this.

suki44883 11-13-2017 07:04 AM

If you weren't driving, and they don't have a readable breathalyzer result, I don't see how they can charge you with DUI. Definitely get an attorney. Yes this is going to cost quite a bit of money, but you will get through it. Hang in there.

Behappy1 11-13-2017 07:07 AM


Originally Posted by suki44883 (Post 6671176)
if you weren't driving, and they don't have a readable breathalyzer result, i don't see how they can charge you with dui. Definitely get an attorney. Yes this is going to cost quite a bit of money, but you will get through it. Hang in there.

this!!

whopper 11-13-2017 07:08 AM


Originally Posted by Behappy1 (Post 6671174)
That’s a good sign. Did you. Do a field sobriety test? If you were behind the wheel HAD you driven?? Did you admit to driving? Call an attorney asap. Yes, this will not be cheap @ all. But take it a day @ a time, don’t drive and remain sober. Be thankful that nobody was hurt.

Have you checked into an IOP, rehab, AA or smart? I would start something immediately. You could also start on naltrexone, vivitrol, Antabuse or something medically rx’d and add meetings to this.

There was no field test. My vehicle could not even start, or move. I went to the station to blow.

Behappy1 11-13-2017 07:12 AM

That doesn’t make sense! Definitely get an attorney right away. I would still do whatever it takes to get sober. For your own sake. You’ve admitted you have a problem. I see you’re in Canada. I am not sure how the laws apply up there.

wildflower70 11-13-2017 07:28 AM

Hi Whopper,

I unfortunately have had 2 DUI's, but they were 15-17 years ago. My lawyer expenses were around 10K each, and on the first offense I had mandatory drug and alcohol counseling and lost my license for 3 months. On my second offense, I had one month of house arrest, community service, 2 years of drug and alcohol testing, daily breathalyzers, and an interlock system in my car for one year. I blew a .235 each time...UGH

It seems as though you may be able to get this thrown out (as you weren't driving), but because you had your keys on you and did a breathalyzer, you may have a chance at a lessor charge. As you can see, the main thing is that this is your 1st and LAST DUI...it only gets worse from here, if you re-offend. Get a lawyer first and get sober so you can mentally deal with the consequences!

Be well, this isn't the end of the world, just a new beginning. :grouphug:

ScottFromWI 11-13-2017 07:49 AM

You need to speak with an attorney Whopper. None of us were there so it's impossible to speculate/predict what might happen legally.

But above and beyond that you have to focus on the real problem - your drinking. That's the reason you are in the situation you are in, regardless of the outcome. If you are charged, showing the judge that you are serious about getting sober and actually doing it will potentially help you in the process. And it will also prevent this from happening again.

JScatt 11-13-2017 08:06 AM

Without giving you a field sobriety test they had no probable cause to give you a breathalyzer test. Of course the laws could be different in Canada.
If this were a case of you got pulled over, failed a field test, blew over the limit then failed the blood/urine test then I...if it were me, wouldn't bother with a lawyer. But in your case I would at least consult an attorney

Laqbrador66 11-13-2017 08:09 AM

I don't know what the laws in Canada are like, or what it takes to prove the state's case against you. Here in the US, assuming you are being truthful, these charges would be nearly impossible to prove. I'm assuming yall have jury trials and I can't see a jury convicting you. Get a lawyer even if you have to go in debt. Above all stop drinking!!

tomsteve 11-13-2017 08:23 AM


Originally Posted by whopper (Post 6671181)
There was no field test. My vehicle could not even start, or move. I went to the station to blow.

probably a good thing your car couldnt start or move,eh?
yes, ive been through this and rightfully so.
however, i suggest not doing what i did- i didnt take it seriously and didnt stop drinking. did the "controlled drinking" think for a very short time and in a very short time was back to what i was before.
and got worse.
what i do suggest is deciding ya want to stop drinking. then get into action getting help to stay stopped.


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