do you want advise/suggestions on how to get and stay sober?

Yes.

Not to sound too simple or harsh but don't drink gets you sober. To stay sober it takes work. Find a program you are willing to do whatever it takes to succeed.

In AA it would be getting a sponsor, working the steps and doing the suggestions that the book suggests.

Good luck whopper, keep coming back posting and asking questions. Sobriety will keep you from having to live this ever again.

Hi everyone. Just to update I have been sober for 4 1/2 months now. I got my license back after my 3 month suspension and I am driving again. I have to go to court again, and it makes me want to drink. I have never been to court ever and I am terrified of the whole process. I still have my lawyer but its like going to mars if you know what I am getting at.