One thing- a thread where the title is complete will get more reads. People are not going to click on a vague title. Try it- do 2 posts... one with a vague title and one with a complete title. |
don't leave :) each one of us is doing what we can |
another thing to consider is do you reply to posts? You are more likely to get replies if you also reply. |
:react I'm sorry everyone. I'm having an emotional day. I have NO reason for it except whenever I'm trying to stay sober I get all sensitive and edgy and cranky even though somewhere deep inside I know I'm better off and will be happy I didn't pick up. I've probably been having a bit of a pitty party for myself I should have remembered that my posts may help others and that means something even if I don't get all the feedback I would like. I'm not going anywhere. If anything I need to stay for the support I get from all of your posts, which I am grateful for. Thanks for being so understanding. |
Originally Posted by SoulKat
(Post 4627505)
:react I'm sorry everyone. I'm having an emotional day. I have NO reason for it except whenever I'm trying to stay sober I get all sensitive and edgy and cranky even though somewhere deep inside I know I'm better off and will be happy I didn't pick up. I've probably been having a bit of a pitty party for myself I should have remembered that my posts may help others and that means something even if I don't get all the feedback I would like. I'm not going anywhere. If anything I need to stay for the support I get from all of your posts, which I am grateful for. Thanks for being so understanding. |
Originally Posted by SoulKat
(Post 4627505)
:react I'm sorry everyone. I'm having an emotional day. I have NO reason for it except whenever I'm trying to stay sober I get all sensitive and edgy and cranky even though somewhere deep inside I know I'm better off and will be happy I didn't pick up. I've probably been having a bit of a pitty party for myself I should have remembered that my posts may help others and that means something even if I don't get all the feedback I would like. I'm not going anywhere. If anything I need to stay for the support I get from all of your posts, which I am grateful for. Thanks for being so understanding. Have a great weekend Soulkat. |
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I tried to pick a nice smillie, it's pretty weird now that I look at it moving... LOL! |
Soulkat I have felt like leaving SR several times....because of what I 'perceived' as a lack of support.....only to realize thta I have indeed received a great deal of support on this forum....then felt bad about myself...especially when reading a thread like this...seeing all the support that exists on SR..... I can assure you soulkat..if you ever send a PM feeling like you need support I will always do what I can to help. Glad you decided to stay on ..... Jim |
Thepatman...please do not ever start editing your typos. hee-hee-hee...goofy smillie. |
(((SoulKat))) thinking about you.... |
This is a forum Soulkat, it's not salvation :D Good you decided to stay |
Originally Posted by Thepatman
(Post 4627524)
I tried to pick a nice smillie, it's pretty weird now that I look at it moving... LOL! Soulkat, I think it's a good decision to stay. We all need each other here! |
doggone carl did what I did. I looked at your threads. when I read through a post, if it is just asking for information and it has already been answered I don't feel the need to reply. Unless I reply from the original post. Then I see that I am saying the same thing already said. Sometimes it is good to have multiple answers to confirm an idea or expression. Other times not. I know this sounds silly, but if someone asks what is 4+4 and the first response is 8, then I don't feel the need to post. I know that is waaaay over simplifying it. But I can give an example of that in one of your threads. Sorry you are having a bad day. We all do. Sometimes I feel I'm not getting the love I want too. Trust that no one here is purposefully not answering your posts or has ill thoughts toward you. I still have my woe is me days. I just got a very bad call from my HR person and told me I was not compliant with their program - even though I was. |
Funny, I was just thinking about this the other day, I mentioned it yesterday, some threads are SRO. Sort of a riff on Carlotta's thread. Tips for creating a stampede…..include any of these in your first post and you're off… I am not as bad as you people…. I have been sober for 5 weeks, going out tonight to have a few….. I am really really wealthy….. I am really really pretty…. I have a genius IQ… I am famous so none of the regular strategies for sobriety will work for me…. I am sitting here on my yacht, and can't for the life of me remember where I put my keys… I am sleeping with my best friend's wife/mother/husband/housekeeper….. This forum is….. Am I too smart for AA?…. I have devised my own way to stay sober, it has worked for 42 hours, PM me if you need advice…. Can't find my house/car/dog/shoes/jet…… Just broke out of rehab…. My pastor just hit on me….. I am sure I am only scratching the surface…but you get the idea! :) Don't take it personally Soulkat, keep posting and feel free to raise the roof like you did today when you need help! |
Originally Posted by jaynie04
(Post 4627620)
Funny, I was just thinking about this the other day, I mentioned it yesterday, some threads are SRO. Sort of a riff on Carlotta's thread. Tips for creating a stampede…..include any of these in your first post and you're off… I am not as bad as you people…. I have been sober for 5 weeks, going out tonight to have a few….. I am really really wealthy….. I am really really pretty…. I have a genius IQ… I am famous so none of the regular strategies for sobriety will work for me…. I am sitting here on my yacht, and can't for the life of me remember where I put my keys… I am sleeping with my best friend's wife/mother/husband/housekeeper….. This forum is….. Am I too smart for AA?…. I have devised my own way to stay sober, it has worked for 42 hours, PM me if you need advice…. Can't find my house/car/dog/shoes/jet…… Just broke out of rehab…. My pastor just hit on me….. I am sure I am only scratching the surface…but you get the idea! :) Don't take it personally Soulkat, keep posting and feel free to raise the roof like you did today when you need help! |
Originally Posted by iSPAZ
(Post 4627631)
You made me laugh!! |
Originally Posted by doggonecarl
(Post 4627435)
Not quite true. YOu have started 31 threads and have gotten 307 replies (not counting this thread). That's a good average. If that's your goal. |
Glad that you are staying, SoulKat. We all need each other. |
Every profile has a "statistics" tab, you can get a list of all threads started!! which then has beside them the number of replies!! :) |
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