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13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 10:48 AM

Well its
 
Day one again! So angry at myself - but what's done is done. Only way is forward :)

Kza 09-16-2013 10:49 AM


Originally Posted by 13unluckyforsom (Post 4183990)
Only way is forward :)

If only that we're true.:gaah

jdooner 09-16-2013 10:51 AM

You beating yourself up too much. You slipped, so what. You are not on a bender you prob feel horrible for giving up the 27 days in your mind but really nothing has changed. My guess is your prob 10x stronger now than two days ago. So best the 27 - you got this!

foolsgold66 09-16-2013 10:54 AM

Oh there you are! Yesterday is gone, leave it there where it belongs! Focus on today...

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:01 AM

Yeah your all right - no point dwelling in more self pity. Start again :) no more 'drinking at' other people and probably time to do a bit of work on me. Like nuu said there's no one going to come and rescue me from myself I have to like me. Thanks everyone for the support yesterday.

ScottFromWI 09-16-2013 11:04 AM


Originally Posted by Kza (Post 4183994)
If only that we're true.:gaah

Kza...there are a lot of people who do see it that way. Perhaps you could start a thread of your own if you are having a problem today rather than dive bombing others with negative thoughts.

Kza 09-16-2013 11:11 AM

I just meant that the only way is forward is not true.

lommey 09-16-2013 11:12 AM

come on 13 you know your a diamond:You_Rock_

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:14 AM


Originally Posted by Kza (Post 4184016)
I just meant that the only way is forward is not true.

I know but in my eyes in this case it's the only way for me :) are you allright anyway Kza?

Kza 09-16-2013 11:15 AM

Yes am fine

ScottFromWI 09-16-2013 11:16 AM


Originally Posted by Kza (Post 4184025)
Yes am fine

I hope so - i saw a simliar post by you in another thread suggesting maybe things aren't OK. Let us know...we are all in the same boat here.

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:16 AM


Originally Posted by lommey (Post 4184021)
come on 13 you know your a diamond:You_Rock_

Shining bright :) lol

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:17 AM


Originally Posted by Kza (Post 4184025)
Yes am fine

You sure? as scott says we are all here if you want to talk...I don't think we've spoke before so it's nice to meet you

sandgirl 09-16-2013 11:18 AM

The only way is forward-that is def true! You can't change the past-you can change your future-only positive thoughts:-). You can be different.

Kza 09-16-2013 11:22 AM


Originally Posted by sandgirl (Post 4184033)
The only way is forward-that is def true! You can't change the past-you can change your future-only positive thoughts:-). You can be different.


No, you can go backwards or stay the same.:gaah

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:42 AM


Originally Posted by Kza (Post 4184043)

No, you can go backwards or stay the same.:gaah

Yes Kza YOU can if that's what YOU choose to do. For me - in this case I'm going forward. So for me it's the only way.

13unluckyforsom 09-16-2013 11:42 AM


Originally Posted by sandgirl (Post 4184033)
The only way is forward-that is def true! You can't change the past-you can change your future-only positive thoughts:-). You can be different.

Thank you

Kza 09-16-2013 11:50 AM


Originally Posted by 13unluckyforsom (Post 4184084)
Yes Kza YOU can if that's what YOU choose to do. For me - in this case I'm going forward. So for me it's the only way.

Unless you fail and then it will not be the only way

Eleni58 09-16-2013 11:55 AM

13, as long as you keep coming back here and posting and keep trying, that is what truly counts! There are so many people that just give up and leave this site. So as long as I still see you here, I know there is hope for you--and you can do it any way you like--as long as you get there. Rootin' for ya!

KZA--negative attitudes = negative results.

ImperfectlyMe 09-16-2013 11:59 AM

Hey 13 use the negative banter there to grow your resolve to move forward! Sure one can stay in the same place move in reverse, but the fact that your here hours after a stumble means yes you are moving forward!

Onward and upward!


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