13unluckyforsom

Day one again! So angry at myself - but what's done is done. Only way is forward

Kza

If only that we're true.

jdooner

You beating yourself up too much. You slipped, so what. You are not on a bender you prob feel horrible for giving up the 27 days in your mind but really nothing has changed. My guess is your prob 10x stronger now than two days ago. So best the 27 - you got this!

foolsgold66

Oh there you are! Yesterday is gone, leave it there where it belongs! Focus on today...

13unluckyforsom

Yeah your all right - no point dwelling in more self pity. Start again no more 'drinking at' other people and probably time to do a bit of work on me. Like nuu said there's no one going to come and rescue me from myself I have to like me. Thanks everyone for the support yesterday.

ScottFromWI

Kza...there are a lot of people who do see it that way. Perhaps you could start a thread of your own if you are having a problem today rather than dive bombing others with negative thoughts.

Kza

I just meant that the only way is forward is not true.

lommey

come on 13 you know your a diamond

13unluckyforsom

I know but in my eyes in this case it's the only way for me are you allright anyway Kza?

Kza

Yes am fine

ScottFromWI

I hope so - i saw a simliar post by you in another thread suggesting maybe things aren't OK. Let us know...we are all in the same boat here.

13unluckyforsom

Shining bright lol

13unluckyforsom

You sure? as scott says we are all here if you want to talk...I don't think we've spoke before so it's nice to meet you

sandgirl

The only way is forward-that is def true! You can't change the past-you can change your future-only positive thoughts:-). You can be different.

Kza

No, you can go backwards or stay the same.

13unluckyforsom

Yes Kza YOU can if that's what YOU choose to do. For me - in this case I'm going forward. So for me it's the only way.

13unluckyforsom

Thank you

Kza

Unless you fail and then it will not be the only way

Eleni58

13, as long as you keep coming back here and posting and keep trying, that is what truly counts! There are so many people that just give up and leave this site. So as long as I still see you here, I know there is hope for you--and you can do it any way you like--as long as you get there. Rootin' for ya!

KZA--negative attitudes = negative results.

ImperfectlyMe

Hey 13 use the negative banter there to grow your resolve to move forward! Sure one can stay in the same place move in reverse, but the fact that your here hours after a stumble means yes you are moving forward!

Onward and upward!