How long does this feeling last? It has been two weeks since I stopped drinking. I went through Alcohol withdrawal. I thought things were getting better but today I woke up with Anxiety and feelings of hopelessness. In the afternoon I felt like I was back to normal and now I am having the Anxiety feeling really strongly again. Is this normal for someone that has quit drinking? Will I ever get through this? I really thought I was better!!! |
I think a lot of us can suffer with anxiety that doesn't seem to be related to anything for a while Bob...I know I did, tho I was anxious before I ever took my first drink. I think 2 weeks is still pretty early on. D |
Originally Posted by Dee74
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I think a lot of us can suffer with anxiety that doesn't seem to be related to anything for a while Bob...I know I did, tho I was anxious before I ever took my first drink. I think 2 weeks is still pretty early on. D I just don't understand it, one minute I feel great and then the next I have this Anxiety. |
I'm not sure but I definitely hear you. Hang in there:) |
if it's worrying you, why not see a Dr, Bob? D |
Hey Bob, I think it takes some time for our nervous systems to get back to "normal". I definitely felt less anxious a couple weeks after quitting but today I have experienced some anxiety. Probably due to other things going on in my life. But still...we have to learn how to deal with things sober and there's a lot of emotions that pop up. I find a nice walk, soak in the tub and distracting myself by reading, watching tv, posting on here etc helps greatly. Congrats on 2 weeks! :) |
Originally Posted by quitforme79
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Hey Bob, I think it takes some time for our nervous systems to get back to "normal". I definitely felt less anxious a couple weeks after quitting but today I have experienced some anxiety. Probably due to other things going on in my life. But still...we have to learn how to deal with things sober and there's a lot of emotions that pop up. I find a nice walk, soak in the tub and distracting myself by reading, watching tv, posting on here etc helps greatly. Congrats on 2 weeks! :) I am going to make an appointment tomorrow Dee. Thanks. |
I think everyone's different, but I definitely felt like it was two steps forward and one back for a while. I actually felt pretty good at a week sober, but at around two weeks it was like the fog set in and I had a lot of tiredness, irritability... emotions all over the place. It could have been because I didn't do anything the first week (?) so I didn't notice it as much, or maybe it was purely physical, idk...... By the third week, I felt like I was making progress again. It can't hurt talking to a doctor if it worries you. Hang in there - I hope you feel better soon!:ghug3 |
Exercise Whenever I feel anxiety, I put on my boots and go for a walk. Breathing deeply and concentrating on each step and before I realize it, the anxiety is gone. 2 weeks isnt very long, compared to how long you have been using alcohol, right? I had been drinking daily for 35 years when I stopped and after 6 months sober I am still feeling anxious at times. These feelings will lessen with time, so keep focused on your sobriety. One thing is for sure, if you go back to your old ways it will be even worse! Congratulations on 2 weeks! :c011: |
Thank you very much Artsoul & Hope4life, your posts really help me understand that this is all part of this process and I am not losing my mind. I slept ok last night. I woke up around 3 am with a little anxiety, or what I have come to believe is anxiety. I was laying there and was trying to understand the feeling I was having. I came up with; it feels like when I had to give a speech or class in front of a lot of people. I don't like getting in front of large groups of people to give speeches. The night before something like that I would feel the way I have been feeling with the withdrawal. Is that what anxiety is? I guess what makes it so hard for me to deal with is that there is no reason for it. I am not worried about anything, it just comes on. If I had a speech to give I would understand the feeling, and although I wouldn't like it, it wouldn't bother me the way it has been now. Have a little anxiety now, going to take a shower and go for a walk. Anyone who can relate I am all ears! I am making an appointment with a doctor today. Thanks all! |
Made an appointment for Monday. It can't come to soon! I just can't fight these thoughts that I should be getting better by now. 3 days ago I cooked a huge dinner for my family and felt GREAT!!! Now I feel close to the firsts days of withdrawal with Anxiety for no reason??????? I actually have nothing to worry about at the moment yet I have this Anxiety!!! And my appetite is gone. It was gone the first week but came back strong. Now it's gone! Blood Pressure and pulse are all good. I will never drink again. I just hope I can get through this! |
I understand as well. For 20 years drinking and think that after 6 months I should be ok. In fact I had an anxiety "attack" yesterday. Out of the blue, having a good day and blam! Broke down. I think we can attest to what the others are saying, give it time. Congrats on your sober time Bob! |
Originally Posted by Bob22
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Made an appointment for Monday. It can't come to soon! I just can't fight these thoughts that I should be getting better by now. 3 days ago I cooked a huge dinner for my family and felt GREAT!!! Now I feel close to the firsts days of withdrawal with Anxiety for no reason??????? I actually have nothing to worry about at the moment yet I have this Anxiety!!! And my appetite is gone. It was gone the first week but came back strong. Now it's gone! Blood Pressure and pulse are all good. I will never drink again. I just hope I can get through this! The fact that you are seeing your doctor Monday should ease some of your anxiety. He will prescribe something for that, I hope. In the meantime these feelings are just par for the course, your body and mind are trying to dry out without the constant flow of a depressant. Yea, that will make you anxious "out of the Blue"--just roll with it , it is normal. Really.:tyou |
Slept great! Woke up and the tingling weak anxiety feeling is in full force. Also have no appetite. God I have to take your word for it Trix but I really feel I should be over this by now. What a nightmare! |
Get to 30 days sobriety and keep healing. |
How long have you been without a drink? And what are you doing for your recovery Bob? |
Originally Posted by Sapling
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How long have you been without a drink? And what are you doing for your recovery Bob? I went to an AA meeting and it was great. I was just looking in the book for another meeting today. I am going to a alcohol Dr./Counselor on Monday. My only problem right now is this Anxiety feeling. I don't know how to describe it. Feels like tingling, low current running through my body. This feeling is what is giving me the Anxiety and Worry that I won't be right. If I could just get it in my head that this is the process and is normal for Alcohol withdrawal and sometime in the next couple weeks it will get better I would be fine. The fact that I was feeling 100% two days ago and now feel like this has me really worried. I will never drink again to disrupt my nervous system and have to go through this. Never!!!! |
I know we are all different Bob...But I can only honestly tell you I needed more than 18 days and one AA meeting before feeling anywhere close to normal. I don't know your drinking history...But I drank daily for 35 years and I had to put in some work to get out of that hole...I also needed that dirty little four letter word...TIME....Things I Must Earn. If AA is the path you want to take...Commit to it....If it's not...Commit to something else...I had to put in the time on my recovery that I put into my drinking...Turns out I only needed half the time. |
Thank you so much Sapling! |
The one thing I have learned in my year and a half in AA that is 100% true is...You get out of it...What you put into it....And so much more. |
anxiety is part of the flight or fight response. Although you are 100% commited to staying sober your sub consience is aware of the big step and the change that is going on now inside your body. I suffered anxiety before I drank due to PTSD and drank to drown out that feeling... ask your doctor for propollol rather than valium etc... it helps the physical symptoms and lets you begin to heal mentally... without the valium brain fuzz. |
Thank you SavageHenry, your reply and everyone elses really really helps me. I have a whole bottle of Ativan that I have been holding off taking because I don't want to become addicted to them. I am sure they would make me feel better but I also have the worry that the anxiety will last for the rest of my life and I will need the Ativan to live with it. I took a walk and feel better. I actually talked to someone out front of their house and it made me feel better. This is really hard!!! Going to an AA Meeting at 12:30 today. Thank you again and I hope you are doing better!!! |
Enjoy the meeting Bob! |
Originally Posted by Bob22
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I just don't understand it, one minute I feel great and then the next I have this Anxiety. |
Originally Posted by LadyinBC
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Have you seen a doctor about this? 18 days is great by the way good for you! I was still struggling at 18 days too, it really does get better, sometimes it hard to believe it will, but it does. It makes me feel a lot better know that this just takes a while and 18 days isn't enough for some people. Thank you so much for your post, it means the world when someone is going through this! |
You're welcome. I had an addiction counsellor also and he was really good. I found it really helped especially in the early days. If you don't click with this one try another one until you find someone that clicks. I personally needed more than just AA. Sometimes they can recommend other programs. Good luck and you can do this! |
I am only two months sober, and I still have cravings and the occasion 'twitch' from the adrenalin. Been doing my mtgs, reading the Big Book. Rereading and marking relevant portions. Keeping busy, all of which are helping me. But on the whole, I feel fantastic. Full of vim and vigor. Yes, the anxiety is occasionally there, but I am channeling into productive things. We are ALL different. My reaction is different than yours, etc. I agree with another poster who says he goes for walks. It is currently 22 degrees. Icy, so will put crampons (Yaktrax) on my boots. No wind, so not that bad. I will bundle up myself, pull a sweater on the dog and we will walk to the mall and back. A honking big cup of coffee when we get back home. Dog will get a healthy snack. Tomorrow after my meeting and then watching the Seahawks, I will go to a movie. Keeping busy, keeping busy. |
Thank you LatteLady!!! |
Today was hell! But the last 4 hours have been Great! Going to sleep and hope I feel good tomorrow. And I hope all of you are doing well!!! Thank you all!!! |
Hi Bob. I'll just chime in with the rest - it took me way longer than 18 days to lose the anxiety. I'm glad to see the end of your day was better than the beginning. Let us know how you are tomorrow. It's good you're seeing your doctor just to be safe. You're doing great - everything's going to be ok. |
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