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Dee74 05-26-2022 04:15 AM

Class of July 2013 Part 63
 
last part here:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...t-62-a-20.html

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Leshar 05-26-2022 04:49 AM

Thanks for the new thread Dee.
I really like what you wrote about your family at the end of the last thread. I put it in my notebook and highlighted it!
CW, that sounds like a good plan wrt that particular branch of the family!
Love to all the Julyers.

Calmerwaters 05-26-2022 06:53 AM

Thanks Dee and Leshar.xx

Glad you are journaling Leshar. I’m not as regular as I used to be. I read back through an old one the other day, they definitely help. I do swear by them. (And in them! :))

Love and hugs to all and thanks for your kind notes to me here. The hiccup is over now and you all helped! xx

SnoozyQ 05-26-2022 11:03 AM

Hi my lovelies . I’m just going through your posts. I have cooked 3 days in a row!
shaun almost had a stroke!!! Haha 😂 I’m actually enjoying it .

im doing well at the moment , the cravings do mess with me though ! Ugh

mags how is that hand my darling !the photos were horrific xx

going yo catch up with posts

love you all

Wendy

xxxxxx

SnoozyQ 05-26-2022 11:05 AM

Xxx

venuscat 05-26-2022 12:18 PM

I love you Wendy ❤️❤️

Dee74 05-26-2022 02:06 PM

Good to hear from you Snooz :)
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Calmerwaters 05-27-2022 02:16 AM

You were up early snooz!

Leshar 05-27-2022 06:37 AM

It's good to see a post from you, Dearest Wendy! Sending love and hugs. ❤

Mags1 05-28-2022 11:58 PM

Hiya Julyers

Thanks for the new thread Dee :thanks

Good to see you Snoozy and all the Julyers :grouphug:

Soberwolf 05-29-2022 11:18 PM

Morning everyone x

Leshar 05-30-2022 03:41 PM

Hi SW, I hope you're well and sleeping better.

SnoozyQ 06-01-2022 08:10 AM

Hello my buddies . We have been so busy getting the house for sale and it looks beautiful . Now we have decided to stay . Why have it looking this good to sell to someone else .
we have had no problem with neighbours as we drive in and just go straight out the back now .
im in such a better frame of mind now .
ijust ignore their alcoholic insults and come straight inside .
Retaliation has never been in my nature
I was starting to hate myself for reacting .
but the past 3 weeks have been lovely

Shaun and I are working as a team , we have been so busy

we figure that the way the market is going, hopefully their landlords will sell and they will move on .

if not , that’s ok , it’s been so much fun doing the house up , I haven’t felt this happy in a long time .

shaun has been wonderful , he is working hard with me around the house and we are getting on better than ever .

maybe things really do happen for a reason

like is good right now and I love going to bed being tired and not from booze


I love my life right now xxxx

Mags1 06-01-2022 08:59 AM

Snoozy, pleased you and Shaun are doing well love. :hug:

venuscat 06-01-2022 02:50 PM

Snoozy....I am really confused. What is going on with neighbours? :hug:

Dee74 06-01-2022 03:26 PM

Good to hear from you Snooz - take care of yourself

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PhoenixJ 06-02-2022 01:51 AM

well done Snooz

Leshar 06-02-2022 07:46 AM

Hi Snoozy, it's so good to hear from you. I'm glad you and Shaun are doing well!

Soberwolf 06-06-2022 02:41 PM

Night gang x

PhoenixJ 06-07-2022 04:32 AM

Sweet dreams Wolf.

resolute50 06-08-2022 06:19 PM

Hi gang.
I can honestly say I was quite depressed this morning.
The increasing inflation and cost of living here is getting bad.
Petrol is costing more than I have ever seen it.
Sorry to rant, my sobriety is fine and I never think of drinking again.
Just venting.

Dee74 06-08-2022 06:23 PM

It certainly is tough times Bob but I'm glad we're all sober...we might not make it otherwise...

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Calmerwaters 06-10-2022 03:19 AM

We have lettuce here for $12 Bob ($8.50 USD)…it’s horrible. But remember how much we spent on alcohol each week for years.

Tomorrow is not promised, find the beauty in what you can today.

I had to make some tough decisions this week to cut off an old school friend due to finding out they had gambling issues. When I was reading about gambling addiction, I found out it can surface in recovering alcoholics/addicts. Starts off quite innocently (doesn’t it always)…but because our neural reward system has already had a dependency, the high of gambling can be intensified.

I personally had never seen this correlation before (I have seen it with food), but am grateful. It’s something for me to be mindful of as I’ve liked a bet on a horse a few times a year, but won’t do that without consideration now.

love to all xx

Calmerwaters 06-10-2022 03:20 AM

Leshar, any theatre shenanigans coming up???

PhoenixJ 06-10-2022 04:04 AM

prayers CW

Calmerwaters 06-12-2022 07:01 AM


Originally Posted by PhoenixJ (Post 7813944)
prayers CW

thanks PJ. A week later and I’m at peace with my decision. As much as I can be, at least.

Was a learning experience about me.

SnoozyQ 06-12-2022 10:33 AM

Hi lovelies.

oh Bob I’m so sorry you are feeling a little depressed.
The world has certainly changed hasn’t it.
petrol here is ridiculous.
I suppose the only consolation is we all understand it and we are not alone xx
just know you always have your buddies here to lean on.
9 years of wonderful friendships x

xxx love you all xxx

Dee74 06-12-2022 01:20 PM

Hi CW and Snoozy :)

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PhoenixJ 06-13-2022 01:03 AM

I shared with my 2 adult sons (who always message back/are friendly, but still a bit wary of f2f), I am over 2000 days sober...came reply from youngest 'I am proud of you Dad'. I replied 'thankyou that means more to me, coming from you, than anyone else, except your brother, I care for you both a great deal'.
Came the reply, 'I know'., from both sons...

SnoozyQ 06-13-2022 04:22 AM

Hiya darling Dee buddy :)

PJ !!!! that’s just SO wonderful my friend.
your boys have definitely come good.
you must be rapt :-)
One day I may be as lucky as you xxx

:cheer:


love to each and every one of you, my friends:kiss:



xxxx


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