He died last weekend
 

He completed rehab about 2 years ago. He got a job and an apartment. He became a great dad. He came over 2-3x per week. He picked our daughter up from school. He did homework with her. He made dinner for us. We maintained a friendly relationship. He was to come over to hang out w our daughter Sunday and never showed up. We couldn’t reach him. I had no idea he was using. None of us knew. My 8yo doesn’t have her dad anymore. We are burying him today. I’m so angry and heartbroken for him and our daughter. For his mom. For me.
I hope he’s at peace.
I posted here bc he had been struggling w alcoholism when I was here last. This is the forum that helped me the most. I hope that’s ok.

I'm so sorry for your and your childrens loss BodkinVanHorn

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So sorry for your loss. :(

Very sorry for your loss, Bodkin.

I am so sorry for your loss, and for the loss felt by everyone who loved him. How sad that addiction takes good people away from us so tragically.

Even if he was using, I am glad he hid it well enough to have some quality time with his daughter the past couple of years. May she hang on to the good memories and some day understand that he was sick and just couln't get well.

My prayers go out for all of you. And for him. :candle:

So sorry.

I’m really sorry to hear about your loss.

I am so very sorry for your loss.
Keep posting here because we all care about you and your daughter. You are in my prayers.

There are a couple grief groups I can point you toward if you want to pm me. They don't judge because of the manner of death or whether you were married to your child's dad at the time.

I'm so sorry.

So sorry for your loss :grouphug:

I am so so sorry for you and your daughter. You will both be in my prayers.

BVH, I am so sorry for your loss. Of course it's okay for you to post here, post as much as you need.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Heartbreaking. I am so very sorry.

Big *hugs* for you and your girl.

I’m very saddened to hear your news - you and your family will be remembered in thought and prayer

I'm so sorry, Bodkin. Keeping you and your daughter in my thoughts and wishing you peace.

So sorry for your and his family.

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Condolences on your loss, it's very sad.