I sent him an e mail yesterday, explaining the transactions that I thought he was questioning. I don't doubt that there were a couple that looked odd, because I made a large transfer online, but realized I needed to do something different, so I transfered most of the money back to savings.
I also told him in the e mail that if he was going to be suspicious of everything I was doing with the finances, that we could just split the savings now and have seperate accounts. He has always handed his paycheck to me and I deposited into one of our joint accounts. I pay all the bills from these accounts. He gets paid either today or monday and I am afraid he will refuse to contribute and I will be stuck trying to pay all the bills myself.