I have one thing in common with most people here, and it usually seems like only one thing. I can relate to some people's experiences occasionally, but I dn't think I have "connected" with anybody here either.
I'm not sure I need to connect with anybody hee, or if just hearing other people's experiences with that one thing we have in common, alcoholism, is enough. It is nice hearing other people go through similar problems, and find solutions, whether I can relate to their situation or not.